The statistics that I read say that 70% of women fake orgasms. So I guess that means there is a good chance that your and my girl are faking as well. What are we doing wrong? Maybe she’s not comfortable with us or maybe were just not doing something right. Faking doesn’t mean she’s not enjoying it just means she’s not enjoying to her full potential. So how do you know if she’s faking? I am going to tell you.
There are two major ways that a woman achieves orgasm. One is with clitoral stimulation and two is having their g spot worked. It’s usually one or the other but not both. You need to know what sends your girl over the edge. Chances are if you do something different and she orgasms then she is faking.
There are a number of ways to tell if your lady is faking her orgasm
1. You don’t want to hear porn movie sounds coming out of your lover. Remember those girls are doing it for the camera so if she is making porn movie sounds then there’s a good chance she is faking.
2. When the two of you are performing any sex acts and you decide to take a break for a minute and she keeps moaning, well you guessed it. This isn’t a good sign. It’s actually a good sign that she’s faking.
3. If the two of you are making love and she is having an orgasm then her PC muscle should go nuts. It should be gripping your penis like there is no tomorrow.
4. One last thing is that she should breathe heavy for quite a while after an orgasm. If the breathing goes back to normal almost immediately then chances are she is faking.
Now these rules don’t apply to all women. Remember everyone is different. However if you are seeing a lot of the examples above I would assume that she is faking. I don’t know about you but if my woman is faking I want to know why. Is it me? Is it her? Is it both of us? I will get into the whys in the next article.
Dale has been happily married for twenty years and considers himself an expert on the relationship topics. You can check out his newly formed relationship blog at http://relationshiptidbits.blogspot.com/ or two more of his up and coming blogs are http://affiliatemarketingfornewbies.blogspot.com/ and http://fishingtutor.blogspot.com/
You hear lots of people laugh or shy away when you bring up the topic of faking orgasms but in a lot of cases this isn’t a laughing matter. It can ruin relationships or make couples very angry at one another. I have written a two part article with some of the basics on faking an orgasm
Saturday, March 31, 2007
How To Make Foreplay Work Better (Part 2)
Foreplay is probably the most important part of the entire love making experience. Foreplay is the actions that come before intercourse. Men or women, it doesn’t matter, foreplay is used for arousal, making the experience better and to add variety into your sex life. This article will be broken into two parts. One will be dedicated to the men and the second to the women.
6. Talk To Her
Women need you to have open and caring conversations with them. They need to hear the words out of your mouth. Don’t make the mistake of over embelishing your conversation. You just want to tell them that you love them or missed them and this will be the right direction into bringing her over the edge.
7. Hear What She Is Saying
Women don’t just want you to hear them but rather they need you to listen to them. They also need to hear you. They want to listen to you. They don’t want short answers to their problems but rather some one who will sit down with them and have an intelligent conversation. This might not seem very sexual but to women this makes for very intimate moments.
8. She Loves To Be Touched
Women love it when you touch them in non sexual ways. To them it shows closeness and security. You want to hold their hands or give them a hug. If they know everything doesn’t have to lead to bedroom activity then when it does that will be so much better. When you’re watching television and you play with her hair it makes her feel like you will be there forever.
9. She Loves To Kiss
Women love kissing. To them there is no more of a turn on then nice romantic kissing. You don’t want to get to crazy at first with the tongue action and what not. She will dictate what she wants and how hard she wants to be kissed. Slowly you can add more passion. The best thing to do when it comes to this is to follow her lead and she will show you how she wants to be kissed.
10. The Next Step
Of course we want the kissing to lead to the next stage but be careful not to get to forceful. There is going to be time between the kissing and the next stage but that’s okay. The more that you show her the love and caress the more turned on she will be. Women get very excited as well but they just show it in different ways.
This is a simple list of tips that can possibly help you and your spouse in the bedroom. This by no means is meant to be tacky or dirty. Every day millions and millions of couples make love without foreplay. Don’t be scared to add foreplay to your bedroom experience and see what it does for the entire love making experience.
Thanks Dale
Dale is an expert author with EzineArticles with more than 60 articles published. http://EzineArticles.com/?expert=Dale_Mazurek You can also check out two of his up and coming interactive blogs at http://fishingtutor.blogspot.com/ and http://relationshiptidbits.blogspot.com/
Love making and foreplay if done right is probably the most satisfying experience in the world. In this article all I strive to do is supply the readers with a few tips into helping this experience.
6. Talk To Her
Women need you to have open and caring conversations with them. They need to hear the words out of your mouth. Don’t make the mistake of over embelishing your conversation. You just want to tell them that you love them or missed them and this will be the right direction into bringing her over the edge.
7. Hear What She Is Saying
Women don’t just want you to hear them but rather they need you to listen to them. They also need to hear you. They want to listen to you. They don’t want short answers to their problems but rather some one who will sit down with them and have an intelligent conversation. This might not seem very sexual but to women this makes for very intimate moments.
8. She Loves To Be Touched
Women love it when you touch them in non sexual ways. To them it shows closeness and security. You want to hold their hands or give them a hug. If they know everything doesn’t have to lead to bedroom activity then when it does that will be so much better. When you’re watching television and you play with her hair it makes her feel like you will be there forever.
9. She Loves To Kiss
Women love kissing. To them there is no more of a turn on then nice romantic kissing. You don’t want to get to crazy at first with the tongue action and what not. She will dictate what she wants and how hard she wants to be kissed. Slowly you can add more passion. The best thing to do when it comes to this is to follow her lead and she will show you how she wants to be kissed.
10. The Next Step
Of course we want the kissing to lead to the next stage but be careful not to get to forceful. There is going to be time between the kissing and the next stage but that’s okay. The more that you show her the love and caress the more turned on she will be. Women get very excited as well but they just show it in different ways.
This is a simple list of tips that can possibly help you and your spouse in the bedroom. This by no means is meant to be tacky or dirty. Every day millions and millions of couples make love without foreplay. Don’t be scared to add foreplay to your bedroom experience and see what it does for the entire love making experience.
Thanks Dale
Dale is an expert author with EzineArticles with more than 60 articles published. http://EzineArticles.com/?expert=Dale_Mazurek You can also check out two of his up and coming interactive blogs at http://fishingtutor.blogspot.com/ and http://relationshiptidbits.blogspot.com/
Love making and foreplay if done right is probably the most satisfying experience in the world. In this article all I strive to do is supply the readers with a few tips into helping this experience.
Friday, March 30, 2007
5 Needs Of A Relationship
Does anybody know what they want out of a relationship? Do you know what you’re looking for in a partner and what needs need to be fulfilled? Most of us get scared and mixed up when we start thinking about what we are looking for when trying to pick our significant other. But once you think about it for a while you should come up with some good ideas. I will go over what I think to be the 5 most important needs.
1. Physical Partner
You need a partner to help you with your physical needs. Man or woman it doesn’t matter. We all have physical needs so when thinking about that person you have to figure out if they can take care of your physical needs and you take care of theirs.
2. Partners Have To Be Friends
Through out you life your going to have lots of highs and lots of lows. You want to have someone that you know you can count on during these times. Someone that will listen when times are tough and someone to help celebrate when things go well.
3. Is Everything There
Your partner has to make you feel 100% fulfilled. Fulfillment is hard to explain but when the time comes you will feel that the partner you are with will be the one that can offer it to you.
4. I Want You As Mine
While a partner isn’t an object that you own you kind of want it to feel that way. If you need to cry or vent you have to know that your partner is there for you. They will support you in life know matter what. And you have to be able to support them. Both of you want to have similar romantic interests like taking long walks, going for ice cream or sitting by the fire.
5. Love Is Most Important
If there isn’t love then forget about anything else. People need love. I don’t care if its men or women. They both need to be pampered. They need to be treated gently. You should be able to voice your love for your partner. Love isn’t just a give but more importantly it is a need.
Okay now you know what you want out of your relationship and I am willing to bet that your partner wants similar things. The key now is to talk to your partner. The two of you need to talk about each others needs and see how things go from there. Just make sure you are honest with each other and things should work out.
In order for your relationship to work you have to know what you need out of it. I have listed what I think to be the 5 most important needs in a relationship.
Dale has been married for twenty very successful years and feels he knows what’s important in a relation ship. You can check out his interactive relationship blog at http://relationshiptidbits.blogspot.com/ You can check out two other very popular blogs oh his. http://stcajo-readshortstories.blogspot.com/ and http://fishingtutor.blogspot.com/
1. Physical Partner
You need a partner to help you with your physical needs. Man or woman it doesn’t matter. We all have physical needs so when thinking about that person you have to figure out if they can take care of your physical needs and you take care of theirs.
2. Partners Have To Be Friends
Through out you life your going to have lots of highs and lots of lows. You want to have someone that you know you can count on during these times. Someone that will listen when times are tough and someone to help celebrate when things go well.
3. Is Everything There
Your partner has to make you feel 100% fulfilled. Fulfillment is hard to explain but when the time comes you will feel that the partner you are with will be the one that can offer it to you.
4. I Want You As Mine
While a partner isn’t an object that you own you kind of want it to feel that way. If you need to cry or vent you have to know that your partner is there for you. They will support you in life know matter what. And you have to be able to support them. Both of you want to have similar romantic interests like taking long walks, going for ice cream or sitting by the fire.
5. Love Is Most Important
If there isn’t love then forget about anything else. People need love. I don’t care if its men or women. They both need to be pampered. They need to be treated gently. You should be able to voice your love for your partner. Love isn’t just a give but more importantly it is a need.
Okay now you know what you want out of your relationship and I am willing to bet that your partner wants similar things. The key now is to talk to your partner. The two of you need to talk about each others needs and see how things go from there. Just make sure you are honest with each other and things should work out.
In order for your relationship to work you have to know what you need out of it. I have listed what I think to be the 5 most important needs in a relationship.
Dale has been married for twenty very successful years and feels he knows what’s important in a relation ship. You can check out his interactive relationship blog at http://relationshiptidbits.blogspot.com/ You can check out two other very popular blogs oh his. http://stcajo-readshortstories.blogspot.com/ and http://fishingtutor.blogspot.com/
Tuesday, March 27, 2007
10 Don’ts Of Losing Weight (Part 2)
Dieting can be one of the hardest things you ever do in your lifetime. There are many dos and don’ts to dieting. If you follow these then maybe you won’t fall off the wagon and start eating stupidly. You absolutely do want to stay away from these don’ts if you want you’re dieting to work. This will be a 2 part miniseries that I hope all will look at and use for their present and future diet endeavors.
6. Stay Away from Your Scale
Everybody always wants to see if their hard work is paying off so three times a day they are running to the scale. Weight loss has some funny fluctuations sometimes like gaining a little before losing a bit more. This is something that is going to turn you of and result in failure. So if you go to the scale everyday you’re just going to end up quitting your diet.
7. You Have To Control Your Feelings
Eating is too easy of a vice. When people get mad, frustrated, sad or even happy they eat. But you know this so you have to deal with it. You know that when you’re bored you grab that bag of chips so it’s important to come to term with these issues and make sure your in control and not your feelings.
8. Its Often Hard To Do It Yourself
As we said earlier everyone is different. It’s really not a bad thing to ask for help. There are people that are trained for stuff like this. The other alternative is family or friends. If it’s too much for you to handle on your own then yes you will fail so why not get some help and succeed.
9. You Still Have To Eat Happy
You can’t cut yourself off entirely from your favorite foods. You will want to cut back on them and maybe use them as a reward for good progression in your diet. At the end of the day if you do things right the occasional chocolate bar or soda pop is not going to make a difference on the out come.
10. You Have To Do Your Homework
You’re going to have to write things down. Study these lists. See where you’re going wrong. Propose changes where they need to be. You have to be honest with yourself. If you just try and rely on will power to take care of it all then you’re doomed right from the beginning.
This is the end of part two in a two part series on the don’ts of dieting. If you’re a new dieter then it’s important that you have a look at these. Dieting doesn’t have to be a frightening experience for you. Go ahead and share these tips with your fellow dieters. I am confident they will make your weight loss more enjoyable.
Thanks Dale Mazurek
Dale is an expert author with EzineArticles with more than 60 articles published. http://EzineArticles.com/?expert=Dale_Mazurek You can also check out two of his up and coming interactive blogs at http://fishingtutor.blogspot.com/ and http://relationshiptidbits.blogspot.com/
Dieting doesn’t have to be a frightening experience if handled properly. Have a look at my list of don’ts to help you make your weight loss experience more enjoyable and manageable.
6. Stay Away from Your Scale
Everybody always wants to see if their hard work is paying off so three times a day they are running to the scale. Weight loss has some funny fluctuations sometimes like gaining a little before losing a bit more. This is something that is going to turn you of and result in failure. So if you go to the scale everyday you’re just going to end up quitting your diet.
7. You Have To Control Your Feelings
Eating is too easy of a vice. When people get mad, frustrated, sad or even happy they eat. But you know this so you have to deal with it. You know that when you’re bored you grab that bag of chips so it’s important to come to term with these issues and make sure your in control and not your feelings.
8. Its Often Hard To Do It Yourself
As we said earlier everyone is different. It’s really not a bad thing to ask for help. There are people that are trained for stuff like this. The other alternative is family or friends. If it’s too much for you to handle on your own then yes you will fail so why not get some help and succeed.
9. You Still Have To Eat Happy
You can’t cut yourself off entirely from your favorite foods. You will want to cut back on them and maybe use them as a reward for good progression in your diet. At the end of the day if you do things right the occasional chocolate bar or soda pop is not going to make a difference on the out come.
10. You Have To Do Your Homework
You’re going to have to write things down. Study these lists. See where you’re going wrong. Propose changes where they need to be. You have to be honest with yourself. If you just try and rely on will power to take care of it all then you’re doomed right from the beginning.
This is the end of part two in a two part series on the don’ts of dieting. If you’re a new dieter then it’s important that you have a look at these. Dieting doesn’t have to be a frightening experience for you. Go ahead and share these tips with your fellow dieters. I am confident they will make your weight loss more enjoyable.
Thanks Dale Mazurek
Dale is an expert author with EzineArticles with more than 60 articles published. http://EzineArticles.com/?expert=Dale_Mazurek You can also check out two of his up and coming interactive blogs at http://fishingtutor.blogspot.com/ and http://relationshiptidbits.blogspot.com/
Dieting doesn’t have to be a frightening experience if handled properly. Have a look at my list of don’ts to help you make your weight loss experience more enjoyable and manageable.
Monday, March 26, 2007
How To Make Foreplay Work Better (Part 1)
Foreplay is probably the most important part of the entire love making experience. Foreplay is the actions that come before intercourse. Men or women, it doesn’t matter, foreplay is used for arousal, making the experience better and to add variety into your sex life. This article will be broken into two parts. One will be dedicated to the men and the second to the women.
1. What He Can See Will Help Him
Men love visuals. Let him see your naked body or you in sexy clothes. You might want to do a dance for him to bring out some fore play fantasy. There is also nothing wrong with a couple watching adult movies together. The biggest thing to remember is that this doesn’t have to be ugly. It can all be done very stylish.
2. Kisses Will Work
Go ahead and kiss your partner all over. You want to do this very slowly and romantically. Kiss his chest, arms, back and stomach. The change in temperature on his skin from your kisses will help to heighten his arousal.
3. Show Him Whose Boss
It’s okay for the women to take control during foreplay. Men don’t always like being the boss. With the women taking control it shows the men that they are just as interested as the guys. When both partners are just as interested it makes the lustful experience that much better.
4. Guys Love Touching
Especially during love making guys love to be touched. They love to be touched on their utmost private places. Give your partner a long massage. Take the time to scratch up and down his arms and back. You will be surprised to find out what a turn on this is for men.
5. Teasing Him Is Okay
It’s okay to tease your partner until just before he goes over the edge. You’re going to want to let up at that point until he settles down enough to do it again. Keep doing it until he can’t handle it any more. This will make the eventual love making an experience to remember.
This is a simple list of tips that can possibly help you and your spouse in the bedroom. This by no means is meant to be tacky or dirty. Every day millions and millions of couples make love without foreplay. Don’t be scared to add foreplay to your bedroom experience and see what it does for the entire love making experience.
Thanks Dale
Dale is an expert author with EzineArticles with more than 60 articles published. http://EzineArticles.com/?expert=Dale_Mazurek You can also check out two of his up and coming interactive blogs at http://fishingtutor.blogspot.com/ and http://relationshiptidbits.blogspot.com/
Love making and foreplay if done right is probably the most satisfying experience in the world. In this article all I strive to do is supply the readers with a few tips into helping this experience.
1. What He Can See Will Help Him
Men love visuals. Let him see your naked body or you in sexy clothes. You might want to do a dance for him to bring out some fore play fantasy. There is also nothing wrong with a couple watching adult movies together. The biggest thing to remember is that this doesn’t have to be ugly. It can all be done very stylish.
2. Kisses Will Work
Go ahead and kiss your partner all over. You want to do this very slowly and romantically. Kiss his chest, arms, back and stomach. The change in temperature on his skin from your kisses will help to heighten his arousal.
3. Show Him Whose Boss
It’s okay for the women to take control during foreplay. Men don’t always like being the boss. With the women taking control it shows the men that they are just as interested as the guys. When both partners are just as interested it makes the lustful experience that much better.
4. Guys Love Touching
Especially during love making guys love to be touched. They love to be touched on their utmost private places. Give your partner a long massage. Take the time to scratch up and down his arms and back. You will be surprised to find out what a turn on this is for men.
5. Teasing Him Is Okay
It’s okay to tease your partner until just before he goes over the edge. You’re going to want to let up at that point until he settles down enough to do it again. Keep doing it until he can’t handle it any more. This will make the eventual love making an experience to remember.
This is a simple list of tips that can possibly help you and your spouse in the bedroom. This by no means is meant to be tacky or dirty. Every day millions and millions of couples make love without foreplay. Don’t be scared to add foreplay to your bedroom experience and see what it does for the entire love making experience.
Thanks Dale
Dale is an expert author with EzineArticles with more than 60 articles published. http://EzineArticles.com/?expert=Dale_Mazurek You can also check out two of his up and coming interactive blogs at http://fishingtutor.blogspot.com/ and http://relationshiptidbits.blogspot.com/
Love making and foreplay if done right is probably the most satisfying experience in the world. In this article all I strive to do is supply the readers with a few tips into helping this experience.
10 Don’ts Of Losing Weight (Part 1)
Dieting can be one of the hardest things you ever do in your lifetime. There are many dos and don’ts to dieting. If you follow these then maybe you won’t fall off the wagon and start eating stupidly. You absolutely do want to stay away from these don’ts if you want you’re dieting to work. This will be a 2 part miniseries that I hope all will look at and use for their present and future diet endeavors.
1. Just Because It’s a Tough Diet Doesn’t Mean It Will Work
There are very strict diets out there but unless you know you are absolutely committed to losing weight then you should stay away from these. Too many first time dieters think that this is the way to go until they realize how tough it is and then they end up failing miserably.
2. Lets Be Realistic
If you think the pounds are just going to fall off by tomorrow then your being unrealistic. In losing weight you have to set personal realistic goals. Set these goals to suit you’re self and not somebody else. Just because your sister lost so much in a certain amount of time means nothing to you. What you have to remember is that everyone and their bodies are different.
3. The Gym Is Overrated
Everyone thinks if they go to the gym everyday for a month that this will fix 15 years of abuse to their bodies. I would suggest the gym twice or three times a week at the most. The gym won’t do any good if your body doesn’t get a chance to respond and heal. So all you are doing is wasting your time and doing no good for your body.
4. Make Sure You Know How Calories Work
Of course you want to cut down on your calorie intake. All diets use calorie counting as the main presence in their diet. However what you have to be careful of is cutting too many calories too fast. By doing this your body will take action and start storing anything it can find. Does this sound like a good way to lose weight?
5. Starving Doesn’t Work
The one thing you don’t want to do is start skipping meals. I can guarantee that cutting down you will lose weight but starving yourself is just going to get you sick. Once you learn that you have to eat the right foods dieting can still be an enjoyable eating experience.
This is the end of part one in a two part series on the don’ts of dieting. If you’re a new dieter then it’s important that you have a look at these. Dieting doesn’t have to be a frightening experience for you. Go ahead and share these tips with your fellow dieters. I am confident they will make your weight loss more enjoyable.
Thanks Dale Mazurek
Dale is an expert author with EzineArticles with more than 60 articles published. http://EzineArticles.com/?expert=Dale_Mazurek You can also check out two of his up and coming interactive blogs at http://fishingtutor.blogspot.com/ and http://relationshiptidbits.blogspot.com/
1. Just Because It’s a Tough Diet Doesn’t Mean It Will Work
There are very strict diets out there but unless you know you are absolutely committed to losing weight then you should stay away from these. Too many first time dieters think that this is the way to go until they realize how tough it is and then they end up failing miserably.
2. Lets Be Realistic
If you think the pounds are just going to fall off by tomorrow then your being unrealistic. In losing weight you have to set personal realistic goals. Set these goals to suit you’re self and not somebody else. Just because your sister lost so much in a certain amount of time means nothing to you. What you have to remember is that everyone and their bodies are different.
3. The Gym Is Overrated
Everyone thinks if they go to the gym everyday for a month that this will fix 15 years of abuse to their bodies. I would suggest the gym twice or three times a week at the most. The gym won’t do any good if your body doesn’t get a chance to respond and heal. So all you are doing is wasting your time and doing no good for your body.
4. Make Sure You Know How Calories Work
Of course you want to cut down on your calorie intake. All diets use calorie counting as the main presence in their diet. However what you have to be careful of is cutting too many calories too fast. By doing this your body will take action and start storing anything it can find. Does this sound like a good way to lose weight?
5. Starving Doesn’t Work
The one thing you don’t want to do is start skipping meals. I can guarantee that cutting down you will lose weight but starving yourself is just going to get you sick. Once you learn that you have to eat the right foods dieting can still be an enjoyable eating experience.
This is the end of part one in a two part series on the don’ts of dieting. If you’re a new dieter then it’s important that you have a look at these. Dieting doesn’t have to be a frightening experience for you. Go ahead and share these tips with your fellow dieters. I am confident they will make your weight loss more enjoyable.
Thanks Dale Mazurek
Dale is an expert author with EzineArticles with more than 60 articles published. http://EzineArticles.com/?expert=Dale_Mazurek You can also check out two of his up and coming interactive blogs at http://fishingtutor.blogspot.com/ and http://relationshiptidbits.blogspot.com/
Saturday, March 24, 2007
How To Make 20 Years Of Marriage
In the day of internet at any given time you can find hundreds and hundreds of ads to help your marriage succeed. There are books, tapes, DVDs, counsellors and lessons of every different kind. I decided to write a short article on what I think has helped my marriage to succeed for the last twenty years. Don’t get me wrong. I believe there is value in the information we find but I thought I would share what made my relationship so successful. These are in no means necessarily in any order.
1. Communication
Communication is one of the most important parts in maintaining a successful relationship. It is important to always keep the lines open. You or your partner might not always like what they are seeing but it’s important to convey that to one another. Make sure the communication goes both ways though. It can’t always be problems that you’re communicating about. You have to make sure you communicate about the good things as well.
2. Honesty
Lying is a great way to head a marriage into a disaster. No matter how big or small a lie is a lie. The marriage has to be open enough that you can convey anything to your partner. If you feel a need to lie then there is a weakness in your marriage. Once you start lying and get away with it then the lies will continue eventually leading to disaster and very possibly a break up.
3. Trust
If you don’t trust your partner then you have to figure out why and see if the issue can be resolved. If it can’t be then the time has come for both of you to walk away. It is so important to have trust. You or your partner has to have time away from each other. Those are the times when trust is the most evident. If you can’t let your partner go out for a night with his or her buddies without calling them on the cell phone all night or continuously wondering what they are doing then you better get this resolved. It might work for a while but eventually things will come to an ugly screeching halt.
4. I Love You
This is a phrase I must have used millions of times in my twenty years of marriage. It is so important to tell your partner that you love them. After twenty years they know but still need to hear it. I never hang up the phone without saying it. I never go to bed without saying it. You can’t be embarrassed to say those three words. Hell I have even yelt them out in the mall before more than once.
5. Show Affection
In order for a marriage to last that long you have to keep the affection strong. You have to maintain a healthy sex life. If things go wrong there it is important to figure out why and deal with it. You have to be able to give your spouse hugs and kisses. And you have to be able to show your affection in public. I don’t mean that you should act like a bunch of teenagers but on a walk you should still hold hands and be able to give each other a kiss.
Twenty years of marriage at times feels like a roller coaster. There will be good and bad times. How you handle these times is whist will direct your marriage. What’s important is that you never give up. It’s too easy now a day to just walk away but I take a lot more pride in never giving up and always fighting for what I believe in.
Dale has been happily married for twenty years. He has started a new interactive relationship blog that can be checked out at http://relationshiptidbits.blogspot.com/ two other blogs that may be of some interest are http://fishingtutor.blogspot.com/ and his second passion after his wife is writing. http://stcajo-readshortstories.blogspot.com
1. Communication
Communication is one of the most important parts in maintaining a successful relationship. It is important to always keep the lines open. You or your partner might not always like what they are seeing but it’s important to convey that to one another. Make sure the communication goes both ways though. It can’t always be problems that you’re communicating about. You have to make sure you communicate about the good things as well.
2. Honesty
Lying is a great way to head a marriage into a disaster. No matter how big or small a lie is a lie. The marriage has to be open enough that you can convey anything to your partner. If you feel a need to lie then there is a weakness in your marriage. Once you start lying and get away with it then the lies will continue eventually leading to disaster and very possibly a break up.
3. Trust
If you don’t trust your partner then you have to figure out why and see if the issue can be resolved. If it can’t be then the time has come for both of you to walk away. It is so important to have trust. You or your partner has to have time away from each other. Those are the times when trust is the most evident. If you can’t let your partner go out for a night with his or her buddies without calling them on the cell phone all night or continuously wondering what they are doing then you better get this resolved. It might work for a while but eventually things will come to an ugly screeching halt.
4. I Love You
This is a phrase I must have used millions of times in my twenty years of marriage. It is so important to tell your partner that you love them. After twenty years they know but still need to hear it. I never hang up the phone without saying it. I never go to bed without saying it. You can’t be embarrassed to say those three words. Hell I have even yelt them out in the mall before more than once.
5. Show Affection
In order for a marriage to last that long you have to keep the affection strong. You have to maintain a healthy sex life. If things go wrong there it is important to figure out why and deal with it. You have to be able to give your spouse hugs and kisses. And you have to be able to show your affection in public. I don’t mean that you should act like a bunch of teenagers but on a walk you should still hold hands and be able to give each other a kiss.
Twenty years of marriage at times feels like a roller coaster. There will be good and bad times. How you handle these times is whist will direct your marriage. What’s important is that you never give up. It’s too easy now a day to just walk away but I take a lot more pride in never giving up and always fighting for what I believe in.
Dale has been happily married for twenty years. He has started a new interactive relationship blog that can be checked out at http://relationshiptidbits.blogspot.com/ two other blogs that may be of some interest are http://fishingtutor.blogspot.com/ and his second passion after his wife is writing. http://stcajo-readshortstories.blogspot.com
Thursday, March 22, 2007
How To Make Your Relationship Succeed (Part 3)
Hello everyone. By no means do I profess to be an expert in relationships but the one thing I do have is a very successful marriage of twenty years. Through those years my wife and I have had to work through several trials and tribulations. We could have very easily given up but the both of us took our vowels very seriously. That hard work has brought us to a point in our relationship where we know everything will be just fine. I will share with you some of the small things that have helped us to make our marriage last. This is part three of a small three part series.
17. Remember sometimes you have to take time for yourself. You would be surprised what 45 minutes would do for your temperament. The key to this is understanding your partner when they need this time.
18. Everyone is going to argue. That’s a given. However you have to learn to argue properly. Your trying to resolve issues not hurt the other person. So if you don’t want to hear it then don’t say it.
19. You want to reinforce your love so one good way to do this is give lots of hugs, smiles and kisses. At least four to one. For every negative aspect give four positive ones.
20. You guys have to learn to work together. Sometimes this means you don’t get everything you want but that’s okay. You have to learn to negotiate.
21. Usually what you married is what you get. Time to face facts. You’re not going to make your partner change. So as long as their characteristics are not harmful to the marriage then learn to live with them.
22. Sometimes people will make mistakes. After all we are only human. You have to be able to forgive your partner. If it’s so bad that you can’t forgive them then maybe it’s best for both of you if you guys go your separate ways.
23. Marriage should be forever but that doesn’t mean things will stay the same forever. You guys have to keep an open relationship so that there are no surprises when one of you has a different opinion on something you did five years ago.
24. Sometimes you have no choice. There just is no making things better. Maybe there are drugs or violence involved. There comes a time when you might just have to say that enough is enough.
25. Lastly, we don’t have counsellors for nothing. They have saved many a marriage. Don’t look at going to a counsellor as a failure but rather as an admission that you want the marriage to work but you need some help.
These are very simple tasks to put into place and follow. I cannot guarantee these will make your relationship perfect but if the relationship was meant to be then these will just show you that much sooner.
Dale Mazurek
This is part three in a 3 part miniseries on how to make your relationship succeed. All the answers are not here but if you follow these tips it can make your relationship much healthier.
Dale is presently working on getting his first novel published. He has been married for twenty years and is a self taught expert fisherman for the last 35 years. You can find some of his incredible stories at his blogs. http://relationshiptidbits.blogspot.com/ http://fishingtutor.blogspot.com/ http://stcajo-readshortstories.blogspot.com/
17. Remember sometimes you have to take time for yourself. You would be surprised what 45 minutes would do for your temperament. The key to this is understanding your partner when they need this time.
18. Everyone is going to argue. That’s a given. However you have to learn to argue properly. Your trying to resolve issues not hurt the other person. So if you don’t want to hear it then don’t say it.
19. You want to reinforce your love so one good way to do this is give lots of hugs, smiles and kisses. At least four to one. For every negative aspect give four positive ones.
20. You guys have to learn to work together. Sometimes this means you don’t get everything you want but that’s okay. You have to learn to negotiate.
21. Usually what you married is what you get. Time to face facts. You’re not going to make your partner change. So as long as their characteristics are not harmful to the marriage then learn to live with them.
22. Sometimes people will make mistakes. After all we are only human. You have to be able to forgive your partner. If it’s so bad that you can’t forgive them then maybe it’s best for both of you if you guys go your separate ways.
23. Marriage should be forever but that doesn’t mean things will stay the same forever. You guys have to keep an open relationship so that there are no surprises when one of you has a different opinion on something you did five years ago.
24. Sometimes you have no choice. There just is no making things better. Maybe there are drugs or violence involved. There comes a time when you might just have to say that enough is enough.
25. Lastly, we don’t have counsellors for nothing. They have saved many a marriage. Don’t look at going to a counsellor as a failure but rather as an admission that you want the marriage to work but you need some help.
These are very simple tasks to put into place and follow. I cannot guarantee these will make your relationship perfect but if the relationship was meant to be then these will just show you that much sooner.
Dale Mazurek
This is part three in a 3 part miniseries on how to make your relationship succeed. All the answers are not here but if you follow these tips it can make your relationship much healthier.
Dale is presently working on getting his first novel published. He has been married for twenty years and is a self taught expert fisherman for the last 35 years. You can find some of his incredible stories at his blogs. http://relationshiptidbits.blogspot.com/ http://fishingtutor.blogspot.com/ http://stcajo-readshortstories.blogspot.com/
Wednesday, March 21, 2007
Why Advertising Is So Important
Hello to everyone
I just wanted to remind everyone what this blog is about. I want it to be the best damn blog out their for relationships. Thats why I made it interactive. This way everybody can help me make it great. But as anybody who does anything on line knows traffic is the most important tool you need. I have found a great new directory site called LondonAdvertisingDirectory.
LondonAdvertisingDirectory can lead me into many differant directions to make all of my marketing endeavors successful. One thing I will tell you is that Im not turning this site into an advertising site but once in a while I will find a great product so why shouldnt it get a good review if it does everything it promises.
It took me a long time to figure out the importance of getting traffic to my sites. At one point while trying to make a living on line I thought you could just sign up to something, sit back and let the money roll in. Learnt that I was wrong pretty quick. So its companies like LondonAdvertisingDirectory that has helped me make my on line endeavors a success. So if your in need of some great advertising you can go check them out at http://www.londonadvertisingdirectory.com/ Remember if you lose a penny you can earn it back quickly but if you lose a second you can never get it back
Thanks Dale
I just wanted to remind everyone what this blog is about. I want it to be the best damn blog out their for relationships. Thats why I made it interactive. This way everybody can help me make it great. But as anybody who does anything on line knows traffic is the most important tool you need. I have found a great new directory site called LondonAdvertisingDirectory.
LondonAdvertisingDirectory can lead me into many differant directions to make all of my marketing endeavors successful. One thing I will tell you is that Im not turning this site into an advertising site but once in a while I will find a great product so why shouldnt it get a good review if it does everything it promises.
It took me a long time to figure out the importance of getting traffic to my sites. At one point while trying to make a living on line I thought you could just sign up to something, sit back and let the money roll in. Learnt that I was wrong pretty quick. So its companies like LondonAdvertisingDirectory that has helped me make my on line endeavors a success. So if your in need of some great advertising you can go check them out at http://www.londonadvertisingdirectory.com/ Remember if you lose a penny you can earn it back quickly but if you lose a second you can never get it back
Thanks Dale
Tuesday, March 20, 2007
How To Make Your Relationship Succeed (Part 2)
Hello everyone. By no means do I profess to be an expert in relationships but the one thing I do have is a very successful marriage of twenty years. Through those years my wife and I have had to work through several trials and tribulations. We could have very easily given up but the both of us took our vowels very seriously. That hard work has brought us to a point in our relationship where we know everything will be just fine. I will share with you some of the small things that have helped us to make our marriage last. This is part two of a small three part series.
9. It is so important not to keep things bottled up inside you. This will just build resentment and lead to the biggest fight imaginable. You need to express your problem and then ask for help with the answer.
10. If you think punishing your partner for something stupid they may have done your just asking for trouble. It will make them fight back even harder. Your best off to ignore the things you don’t like and praise them for the things that make you happy.
11. Here is the biggest reason people fight. MONEY Yes that’s right. Finances are the number one reason for the biggest fights around. Both of you have to learn to be open about money. When you work on the budget it has to be both of you involved equally.
12. House work isn’t just for women. The work around the house needs to be divided up evenly. This means children and yes hubby has to have an even share as well.
13. Something else that needs to be spit up and that is child care. Hubby has to be involved in changing diapers and feedings as well so that mom can take a break.
14. Don’t let your sex life disappear. There are going to be ups and downs in your sex life but as soon as either one of you see it going down make sure you start working to bring it back up. Don’t let sex turn into an argument.
15. I am not advocating having an affair but if one does happen you should still try and work things out. Figure out why it happened and see if it can be corrected. A mistake doesn’t have to be the end of a lifelong commitment.
16. Remember if you are bored with your spouse then you are probably angry about something so you should be asking yourself what you are angry about.
These are very simple tasks to put into place and follow. I cannot guarantee these will make your relationship perfect but if the relationship was meant to be then these will just show you that much sooner.
Dale Mazurek
This is part two in a 3 part miniseries on how to make your relationship succeed. All the answers are not here but if you follow these tips it can make your relationship much healthier.
Dale is presently working on getting his first novel published. He has been married for twenty years and is a self taught expert fisherman for the last 35 years. You can find some of his incredible stories at his blogs. http://relationshiptidbits.blogspot.com/ http://fishingtutor.blogspot.com/ http://stcajo-readshortstories.blogspot.com/
9. It is so important not to keep things bottled up inside you. This will just build resentment and lead to the biggest fight imaginable. You need to express your problem and then ask for help with the answer.
10. If you think punishing your partner for something stupid they may have done your just asking for trouble. It will make them fight back even harder. Your best off to ignore the things you don’t like and praise them for the things that make you happy.
11. Here is the biggest reason people fight. MONEY Yes that’s right. Finances are the number one reason for the biggest fights around. Both of you have to learn to be open about money. When you work on the budget it has to be both of you involved equally.
12. House work isn’t just for women. The work around the house needs to be divided up evenly. This means children and yes hubby has to have an even share as well.
13. Something else that needs to be spit up and that is child care. Hubby has to be involved in changing diapers and feedings as well so that mom can take a break.
14. Don’t let your sex life disappear. There are going to be ups and downs in your sex life but as soon as either one of you see it going down make sure you start working to bring it back up. Don’t let sex turn into an argument.
15. I am not advocating having an affair but if one does happen you should still try and work things out. Figure out why it happened and see if it can be corrected. A mistake doesn’t have to be the end of a lifelong commitment.
16. Remember if you are bored with your spouse then you are probably angry about something so you should be asking yourself what you are angry about.
These are very simple tasks to put into place and follow. I cannot guarantee these will make your relationship perfect but if the relationship was meant to be then these will just show you that much sooner.
Dale Mazurek
This is part two in a 3 part miniseries on how to make your relationship succeed. All the answers are not here but if you follow these tips it can make your relationship much healthier.
Dale is presently working on getting his first novel published. He has been married for twenty years and is a self taught expert fisherman for the last 35 years. You can find some of his incredible stories at his blogs. http://relationshiptidbits.blogspot.com/ http://fishingtutor.blogspot.com/ http://stcajo-readshortstories.blogspot.com/
Monday, March 19, 2007
How To Make Your Relationship Succeed (Part 1)
Hello everyone. By no means do I profess to be an expert in relationships but the one thing I do have is a very successful marriage of twenty years. Through those years my wife and I have had to work through several trials and tribulations. We could have very easily given up but the both of us took our vowels very seriously. That hard work has brought us to a point in our relationship where we know everything will be just fine. I will share with you some of the small things that have helped us to make our marriage last. This is part one of a small three part series.
1. It is very important that you make time for one another. I can’t tell you how much because I don’t know your schedule but no matter what you do the both of you have to commit this time to being quality time. There should be no distractions of any kind.
2. You have to both realize that you can’t be right all the time. Compromise will be a huge word in your marriage and you have to learn how it works early on in your relationship. Sometimes you have to give to get.
3. Keeping a happy medium with your feelings is crucial. It is important that your spouse knows that you need them but on the other hand if you are always hanging all over them then things are going to go bad quickly.
4. If you want your partner to listen to you when you need someone to talk to then you have to make sure you make the effort to listen to them in their time of need. One thing to remember is that it takes two to tangle.
5. If you’re waiting for compliments it’s not always going to happen. Its okay to encourage kind words by asking questions like doesn’t the car look good?
6. When it comes to the bedroom it’s a must that both of you show each other what you like right from the beginning. 9 times out of ten your partner isn’t going to figure it out without your help.
7. I will tell you what works great to reassure your partner that everything is going to be all right. That is to every once in a while give them the smile. You know which one I mean. The one that shows love and sincerity.
8. You have to learn to live with each other. What might have been cute early in your relationship might be annoying now but just remember that you to are going to do annoying things as well.
These are very simple tasks to put into place and follow. I cannot guarantee these will make your relationship perfect but if the relationship was meant to be then these will just show you that much sooner.
Dale Mazurek
This is part one in a 3 part miniseries on how to make your relationship succeed. All the answers are not here but if you follow these tips it can make your relationship much healthier.
Dale is presently working on getting his first novel published. He has been married for twenty years and is a self taught expert fisherman for the last 35 years. You can find some of his incredible stories at his blogs. http://relationshiptidbits.blogspot.com/ http://fishingtutor.blogspot.com/ http://stcajo-readshortstories.blogspot.com/
1. It is very important that you make time for one another. I can’t tell you how much because I don’t know your schedule but no matter what you do the both of you have to commit this time to being quality time. There should be no distractions of any kind.
2. You have to both realize that you can’t be right all the time. Compromise will be a huge word in your marriage and you have to learn how it works early on in your relationship. Sometimes you have to give to get.
3. Keeping a happy medium with your feelings is crucial. It is important that your spouse knows that you need them but on the other hand if you are always hanging all over them then things are going to go bad quickly.
4. If you want your partner to listen to you when you need someone to talk to then you have to make sure you make the effort to listen to them in their time of need. One thing to remember is that it takes two to tangle.
5. If you’re waiting for compliments it’s not always going to happen. Its okay to encourage kind words by asking questions like doesn’t the car look good?
6. When it comes to the bedroom it’s a must that both of you show each other what you like right from the beginning. 9 times out of ten your partner isn’t going to figure it out without your help.
7. I will tell you what works great to reassure your partner that everything is going to be all right. That is to every once in a while give them the smile. You know which one I mean. The one that shows love and sincerity.
8. You have to learn to live with each other. What might have been cute early in your relationship might be annoying now but just remember that you to are going to do annoying things as well.
These are very simple tasks to put into place and follow. I cannot guarantee these will make your relationship perfect but if the relationship was meant to be then these will just show you that much sooner.
Dale Mazurek
This is part one in a 3 part miniseries on how to make your relationship succeed. All the answers are not here but if you follow these tips it can make your relationship much healthier.
Dale is presently working on getting his first novel published. He has been married for twenty years and is a self taught expert fisherman for the last 35 years. You can find some of his incredible stories at his blogs. http://relationshiptidbits.blogspot.com/ http://fishingtutor.blogspot.com/ http://stcajo-readshortstories.blogspot.com/
Sunday, March 18, 2007
Relationship Tid Bits (Cold Feet Part 3)
As promised here is my third and final article on cold feet. For the most part this syndrome really isn’t anything to worry about except in extreme cases. You just have to make sure you don’t let these silly fears make decisions for you. So quit thinking silly thoughts about whether you should get married or not and get on with your life
Tip 4
Hers something you could do. Just get away from everything for a while. Stop planning the wedding, stop planning the honeymoon, and just stop planning everything all together. You can get a hold of some buddies and take off for the night. Hell why don’t you take off for the weekend. Chances are you’re going to get into a jug of whiskey with your buddies and forget about everything. I bet by the end of the night you will be calling your partner to tell them how much you love them and how much you need them. Everything is going to be cool.
Tip 5
Cold feet are normal in any pending marriage. For the most part it is the guy who suffers from it. You have to take the time to think about things. You need to talk to people. Talk to your partner, talk to family and friends. They’re going to tell you that what you’re feeling is normal. It is however important to get things figured out before the wedding because you don’t want to go into your big day with doubts on your mind.
So in conclusion I want you to remember to stop looking at the big picture. There is no way on this earth that we can know if we’re going to be good parents, or if we are going to make enough money. We don’t know if the marriage will last but if you really love your partner then you have to decide that you are going to get through one thing at a time.
This is the end of my miniseries on cold feet. Stories like this can be quite funny when you look back at them but in the rare occurrence they can be quite devastating. If you are suffering from cold feet then go ahead and print this out and utilize it or give it to someone else that may question you about not being sure about their wedding plans.
Dale Mazurek
Dale Mazurek is an expert article writer. When it comes to relationships he has been married twenty years so he feels he has lots to offer in the relationship field. He is also in the process of getting his first novel published. You can check out both his blogs at http://relationshiptidbits.blogspot.com/
Or http://stcajo-readshortstories.blogspot.com/
Tip 4
Hers something you could do. Just get away from everything for a while. Stop planning the wedding, stop planning the honeymoon, and just stop planning everything all together. You can get a hold of some buddies and take off for the night. Hell why don’t you take off for the weekend. Chances are you’re going to get into a jug of whiskey with your buddies and forget about everything. I bet by the end of the night you will be calling your partner to tell them how much you love them and how much you need them. Everything is going to be cool.
Tip 5
Cold feet are normal in any pending marriage. For the most part it is the guy who suffers from it. You have to take the time to think about things. You need to talk to people. Talk to your partner, talk to family and friends. They’re going to tell you that what you’re feeling is normal. It is however important to get things figured out before the wedding because you don’t want to go into your big day with doubts on your mind.
So in conclusion I want you to remember to stop looking at the big picture. There is no way on this earth that we can know if we’re going to be good parents, or if we are going to make enough money. We don’t know if the marriage will last but if you really love your partner then you have to decide that you are going to get through one thing at a time.
This is the end of my miniseries on cold feet. Stories like this can be quite funny when you look back at them but in the rare occurrence they can be quite devastating. If you are suffering from cold feet then go ahead and print this out and utilize it or give it to someone else that may question you about not being sure about their wedding plans.
Dale Mazurek
Dale Mazurek is an expert article writer. When it comes to relationships he has been married twenty years so he feels he has lots to offer in the relationship field. He is also in the process of getting his first novel published. You can check out both his blogs at http://relationshiptidbits.blogspot.com/
Or http://stcajo-readshortstories.blogspot.com/
Friday, March 16, 2007
Relationship Tid Bits (Cold Feet Part 2)
As promised here is my second article on cold feet. For the most part this syndrome really isn’t anything to worry about except in extreme cases. You just have to make sure you don’t let these silly fears make decisions for you. So quit thinking silly thoughts about whether you should get married or not and get on with your life
Tip 1
Okay the first thing I want you to do is write down all the things that are worrying you about getting married. I am willing to bet that most people can’t even get through an entire sentence. However for those of you who do get a sentence or several of them I want you to have a good look. Do any of them even have anything to do with your engagement or with you getting married? You might think they have to do with marriage but really wondering if you’re going to be a good father or something like that comes with time and you will find that out later. So for now I just want you to concentrate on getting married.
Tip 2
Now it is time to write a letter to the person you are going to marry. If you love this person you are going to come up with paragraphs and paragraphs of sweet, lusty things to say. This will only strengthen the fact that you love this person and that you want to carry on with the wedding. Now for the small minority of you who can’t write a nice thing about your partner then yes maybe you should be taking a good look at what you are about to do.
Tip 3
If wedding bells are in the future then by now there should be an array of pictures with you and your future spouse. So go ahead and look at them and see how they make you feel. For the most part I bet you are going to have a lot of good memories in those pictures. These memories are going to convince you that you want to be in more pictures and you want to make more memories. Now once again in the rare case that you can’t stand looking at the pictures then yes maybe you should do some serious thinking about what you are about to do.
In my two part miniseries I will try and show you how to avoid or work through cold feet. It is one thing to laugh at but I would suggest anyone suffering from cold feet have a look at this. It could help you work through it to carry on with a wonderful and prosperous relationship.
Dale Mazurek is an expert article writer. When it comes to relationships he has been married twenty years so he feels he has lots to offer in the relationship field. He is also in the process of getting his first novel published. You can check out both his blogs at http://relationshiptidbits.blogspot.com/
Or http://stcajo-readshortstories.blogspot.com/
Tip 1
Okay the first thing I want you to do is write down all the things that are worrying you about getting married. I am willing to bet that most people can’t even get through an entire sentence. However for those of you who do get a sentence or several of them I want you to have a good look. Do any of them even have anything to do with your engagement or with you getting married? You might think they have to do with marriage but really wondering if you’re going to be a good father or something like that comes with time and you will find that out later. So for now I just want you to concentrate on getting married.
Tip 2
Now it is time to write a letter to the person you are going to marry. If you love this person you are going to come up with paragraphs and paragraphs of sweet, lusty things to say. This will only strengthen the fact that you love this person and that you want to carry on with the wedding. Now for the small minority of you who can’t write a nice thing about your partner then yes maybe you should be taking a good look at what you are about to do.
Tip 3
If wedding bells are in the future then by now there should be an array of pictures with you and your future spouse. So go ahead and look at them and see how they make you feel. For the most part I bet you are going to have a lot of good memories in those pictures. These memories are going to convince you that you want to be in more pictures and you want to make more memories. Now once again in the rare case that you can’t stand looking at the pictures then yes maybe you should do some serious thinking about what you are about to do.
In my two part miniseries I will try and show you how to avoid or work through cold feet. It is one thing to laugh at but I would suggest anyone suffering from cold feet have a look at this. It could help you work through it to carry on with a wonderful and prosperous relationship.
Dale Mazurek is an expert article writer. When it comes to relationships he has been married twenty years so he feels he has lots to offer in the relationship field. He is also in the process of getting his first novel published. You can check out both his blogs at http://relationshiptidbits.blogspot.com/
Or http://stcajo-readshortstories.blogspot.com/
Thursday, March 15, 2007
Relationship Tid Bits (Cold Feet Part 1)
Ok now you have asked her to marry you. She’s the greatest girl in the world and there is no one you would rather be with. You’re at the football field playing some touch football with your buddies. You hear your cell phone ring and guess what? It’s the girl of your dreams and she is panicking on the other end. You are immediately scared that someone has been hurt or something but no one’s been hurt. Your fiancé called you in a panic, interrupted you just to tell you that the caterer called telling her that chicken wouldn’t be available for the main course and that they would have to choose between beef or salmon. You can’t believe she called you for this and to make matters worse she is going off the deep end because of something so trivial. You tell her that you guys will discuss it when you get home later and you hang up and head back out to the field.
Now you’re back on the field and all of a sudden the back of your neck feels sore, you feel a little dizzy, your palms start sweating. You know there’s something wrong. You think you might be having a heart attack or something. You tell one of your buddies and he immediately starts laughing. You’re angry because he doesn’t seem concerned at all. You want to kill him but he stops you and tells you that he heard your conversation. He’s still laughing when he tells you that the only thing wrong is that you have “cold feet”
You know you love her, you asked her to marry you but now you’re second guessing yourself. Not because you don’t love her but because you are scared out of your pants. You have so many questions that you can’t answer. Will I be a good husband, do I want kids, will I be a good dad, swill I be a good provider, can I afford to be married? Now your head starts spinning again.
That’s right; you have “cold feet”. Cold feet afflicts men more than women in the weeks and months prior to getting married. For the most part the couples usually work it out and just have a good laugh about it later. However there is the rare occurrence when cold feet stops the wedding all together because one of the partners decides he or she just can’t handle it. It all seems funny but cold feet can be very serious in the outcome of a person’s life. Lots of money spent and wasted not to mention the feelings of the person that gets left standing at the altar.
In my two part miniseries I will try and show you how to avoid or work through cold feet. It is one thing to laugh at but I would suggest anyone suffering from cold feet have a look at this. It could help you work through it to carry on with a wonderful and prosperous relationship.
Dale Mazurek is an expert article writer. When it comes to relationships he has been married twenty years so he feels he has lots to offer in the relationship field. He is also in the process of getting his first novel published. You can check out both his blogs at http://relationshiptidbits.blogspot.com/
Or http://stcajo-readshortstories.blogspot.com/
Now you’re back on the field and all of a sudden the back of your neck feels sore, you feel a little dizzy, your palms start sweating. You know there’s something wrong. You think you might be having a heart attack or something. You tell one of your buddies and he immediately starts laughing. You’re angry because he doesn’t seem concerned at all. You want to kill him but he stops you and tells you that he heard your conversation. He’s still laughing when he tells you that the only thing wrong is that you have “cold feet”
You know you love her, you asked her to marry you but now you’re second guessing yourself. Not because you don’t love her but because you are scared out of your pants. You have so many questions that you can’t answer. Will I be a good husband, do I want kids, will I be a good dad, swill I be a good provider, can I afford to be married? Now your head starts spinning again.
That’s right; you have “cold feet”. Cold feet afflicts men more than women in the weeks and months prior to getting married. For the most part the couples usually work it out and just have a good laugh about it later. However there is the rare occurrence when cold feet stops the wedding all together because one of the partners decides he or she just can’t handle it. It all seems funny but cold feet can be very serious in the outcome of a person’s life. Lots of money spent and wasted not to mention the feelings of the person that gets left standing at the altar.
In my two part miniseries I will try and show you how to avoid or work through cold feet. It is one thing to laugh at but I would suggest anyone suffering from cold feet have a look at this. It could help you work through it to carry on with a wonderful and prosperous relationship.
Dale Mazurek is an expert article writer. When it comes to relationships he has been married twenty years so he feels he has lots to offer in the relationship field. He is also in the process of getting his first novel published. You can check out both his blogs at http://relationshiptidbits.blogspot.com/
Or http://stcajo-readshortstories.blogspot.com/
Tuesday, March 13, 2007
Well since this is my blog I should probably put the first story in. I have a ton of them going way back but I am going to choose this one first. There will be many more to come.
How I Met Jackie
About 21 years ago some friends and I had just finished up a day of snowmobiling and decided that we wanted to go out for some pizzas and beers. At that time in my life I was a waiter in my small home town of Vegreville, Alberta, Canada. We decided to go to the restaurant that I worked at. When we got inside and seated the most beautiful blonde haired, blue eyed girl that I had ever seen walked up to take our orders. I couldn’t help myself and I told her that one day I would have her. I think I embarrassed her and made her angry all with that one comment. She immediately left the table and got someone else to serve us. Remember she didn’t know that I worked in that restaurant.
The next day I walked in for work and there was Jackie. When she found out that I worked there she immediately took a hate on for me but I was bound and determined to be with her. No matter how hard I tried she would never bite. In fact I think she hated me more and more each day. One time she did accept a ride home from me but she took me all over town and then had me drop her off at some one else’s house just so I wouldn’t know where she lived. I wasn’t going to give up.
Girls you are not going to like me for this but I want to tell the story accurately.
I decided to go out with another girl to make Jackie jealous. Guess what it worked. Almost immediately after I started going out with this other girl Jackie started to show me signs that she liked me. She showed huge signs of jealousy as well. Then one day she and I were walking down the mall together to flip the breaker on the big neon sign outside. The mall was dark and we were alone. Jackie pushed me up against the wall and gave me a kiss that was so full of passion that I think we both knew right then and there that we would be together for a long time.
Obviously I had to break up with the other girl and whether or not you guys believe it I did feel bad for her because she was a nice person but Jackie was the girl I wanted to be with.
Here it is about 21 years later and her and I are still together. Oh sure we had trying times and still do once in a while but we never give up on one another and I always tell her that I love her. That is my story on how I met my wife Jackie.
Dale Mazurek
How I Met Jackie
About 21 years ago some friends and I had just finished up a day of snowmobiling and decided that we wanted to go out for some pizzas and beers. At that time in my life I was a waiter in my small home town of Vegreville, Alberta, Canada. We decided to go to the restaurant that I worked at. When we got inside and seated the most beautiful blonde haired, blue eyed girl that I had ever seen walked up to take our orders. I couldn’t help myself and I told her that one day I would have her. I think I embarrassed her and made her angry all with that one comment. She immediately left the table and got someone else to serve us. Remember she didn’t know that I worked in that restaurant.
The next day I walked in for work and there was Jackie. When she found out that I worked there she immediately took a hate on for me but I was bound and determined to be with her. No matter how hard I tried she would never bite. In fact I think she hated me more and more each day. One time she did accept a ride home from me but she took me all over town and then had me drop her off at some one else’s house just so I wouldn’t know where she lived. I wasn’t going to give up.
Girls you are not going to like me for this but I want to tell the story accurately.
I decided to go out with another girl to make Jackie jealous. Guess what it worked. Almost immediately after I started going out with this other girl Jackie started to show me signs that she liked me. She showed huge signs of jealousy as well. Then one day she and I were walking down the mall together to flip the breaker on the big neon sign outside. The mall was dark and we were alone. Jackie pushed me up against the wall and gave me a kiss that was so full of passion that I think we both knew right then and there that we would be together for a long time.
Obviously I had to break up with the other girl and whether or not you guys believe it I did feel bad for her because she was a nice person but Jackie was the girl I wanted to be with.
Here it is about 21 years later and her and I are still together. Oh sure we had trying times and still do once in a while but we never give up on one another and I always tell her that I love her. That is my story on how I met my wife Jackie.
Dale Mazurek
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