Long distance relationships.

It's very hard to be in a long distance relationship for obvious reasons and one of the main attributes you have to aquire, along with patience and perseverence is trust. This can get a tad bit difficult though when you are so far away from each other and miles or an ocean split you in half. The fun side is though knowing that at least in this big wide world there is someone who is thinking of you, evne through the rough timese, even when they can't see your face or hold your hand. This in itself can be looked on as a great blessing and comfort and as I am experiencing my own long distance trauma I think of all of those couples that will be apart for this Valentine's day just like we are going to be and I hope they can drwaw a little comfort from this one simple thought.

Happy Chinese New Year.

I wish everyone whe is reading this today a HAPPY CHINESE NEW YEAR..XIN NIAN KUAI LE and wsh that all of those Lovely Chinese who have been stranded in the really bad weather in China get reunited with their families as soon as possible. I won't be celebrating it myself as I am far away from my Chinese Beloved who is quite distant from me at the moment anyway due to the distance, so he doesn't want to celebrate it at all with me as a punishment for being away lol. I do understand him, but it isn't all my fault..I wish I could be with him but circumstances don't allow me at the moment, so not only am I missing him but also I am kind of being punished for being away. So there, that is the reason I can't celebrate even though I tried my best to cheer him up and send him festive messages. I suppiose once a guoilao always a guoilao. I may never really be acceptedd into a Chinese family after all, despite that.I still want to wish every one a happy new year, my love doesn't change for him because of circumstance or weather..I hope he realizes that one day.