Massage As A Part Of Foreplay

We have talked about foreplay in the past and how important it is to great love making. What we are going to talk about in this article is how a sensual massage can be a great part of foreplay.

A romantic candle light dinner and a sensual massage. There really isn’t anything better than this combination. Here is a map of how things should progress. First the two of you should have your intimate dinner and then you should make your move. I absolutely do not mean going straight into intercourse. Surprise your girl with a massage. This will tell her that she’s driving you crazy and that you want to feel every part of her body. At this moment there is no time to think about any of your worries. You have to focus your time entirely on making your girl feel hot and sexy. A good massage isn’t something that happens quickly. It takes a good long time to make all of her most intimate places feel great. This isn’t a normal massage. This massage is meant to heighten all the senses and lead into true passionate love making.

Having a couple of romantic CDs to heighten the mood is a great idea. There are also many other supplies that you may need for a truly great massage. Candles, incense, massage oils, clean towels and clean sheets because the sheets are going to get messy with the oils. Start with a soft massage because the first key should be to help your lover relax and get into the right mood. What you want to do is tease her a bit by playing with her erogenous zones, but avoid her breasts and vagina. You want to go slow and focus on languid strokes while rubbing each other bodies together. It’s important to find a good rhythm and include all body parts.

Now you’re going to want to move right in but this could be your biggest mistake. You can’t move any faster than you have been and believe it or not you should ask permission to go any further. You might have made her feel so good that she may not want to go any further. If she does agree to go further then you can start massaging her private parts. Another great way to help in this is the use of toys if both of you are in agreement.

Dale Mazurek

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Man Confidence

We know that women love their men strong and confident. They love a man that will embrace them and someone who can admit to his mistakes. This article is meant to make issues about men’s confidence a little clearer.

Confidence can only start with right attitude and positive thinking. You have to work on insecurities instead of letting them affect your everyday life. First and foremost you have to believe in yourself because how can you show confidence if you don’t have self belief.

Two many guys deal with what ifs. You can what if everything you do but living like that will just get you depressed. You have to watch your own confidence so if it’s lacking then you have to work on it.

First of all appearance does matter. That doesn’t mean you have to attain Hollywood looks to have confidence. Boyish good looks, magnetism, or big bulging muscles isn’t all it has to be. The important part is to look neat and tidy. Let your charm radiate from within. It really is the simple things that count. Make sure you open doors for girls, get a cab for her. You can be a knight in shining honor with out a white steed.

Another thing to remember is that girls like bad boys. I don’t mean bad boys through criminal behavior but more through mystery and excitement. These kinds of guys are just happy to be themselves. They don’t need approval to be liked. Bad boys exude confidence, individuality, and masculinity.

Guys without confidence are always looking for approval from women. They always act needy and desperate. Guys like this don’t have the confidence to build a relationship so they try and buy relationships with expensive gifts and taking the girls to classy restaurants. Well this might be nice it’s not what women are really looking for in a man.

Women just want a man that’s not scared to show his feelings or to share their feelings. She wants someone that will listen and someone who will give her a hug. Sex is important but any girl would put sex second if she has a strong guy who will be there for her

Dale Mazurek

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Activities For Anger Management

Tough is the word I would use to describe how it is to deal with the circumstances of getting angry with no control. Too many people don’t know how to handle tight situations other than getting uncontrollably angry. Of course we will leave young children out of that category. There are ways to cope with situations of the sort but not enough people know that the education is out there.

Participation is the key for individuals to be able to control their anger. There are a number of activities that can be practised when you are feeling like you are about to lose control. A very important and popular one is to exercise. Exercise will usually improve an individual’s mood rather quickly. These exercises can be something as simple as going for a walk or a very aggressive work out at the gym. Going for a walk in the country is usually the best. It will create a feeling of serenity which will keep you calm for a long time afterwards.

It helps for people to know that they are not alone. Once they see this then they have an easier time opening up about their feelings. There are many anger management camps or support groups around your area. This way a person also gets to hear about the success stories which in turn will make them feel like maybe they can shake this nasty and dangerous disease.

Kids are however a little different. While it is important to deal with the anger management issues, it usually takes a little different strategy. Kids don’t tend to respond to well in groups sessions like support groups. They either tend to shy away or get bored very fast. So what you need to do with kids is have them participate in sports that will help them overcome some of their issues. Other carefully planned activities work well for kids. It might be something like writing a story or coloring a picture. Either way with the exception of extreme case this has been found to work better than dragging your kids off to the mental doctor. Remember that they are only kids so you need to approach them as such.

Everyone is different so it, if possible should be left up to the individual to choose his activities. If you try and force someone into something they are unfamiliar with or something they don’t like then you will only end up going backwards in the helping of the anger management.

Dale Mazurek

Dale is the author and co author of many blogs. Between him and his partner they have been able to distribute much advice on many topics. Some of the blogs can be found at http://relationshiptidbits.blogspot.com/ or http://unityblog1.blogspot.com/ and http://dalesblogs.blogspot.com/