If you are in a relationship right now, or are thinking of
going into one, there are 3 very important tips you should
know and questions you should ask yourself before you ever
get yourself into a relationship. This could save you from a
lot of heartache and pain when you are involved in a love
relationship.
(1) Your lover does not owe you your happiness, peace or
joy.
Happiness is a state of mind we choose to have. All of your
happiness, and all of your suffering, are created by you and
they do not come from outside of you, or from others. Before
you go into any type of relationship, ask yourself these
questions: "Do I really, really, really know how to walk
away from disappointment and fear? Will I be able to find
the person that I am now even after I go into this
relationship and begin a new way of life?" In short, you
should not be dependent on your partner on your emotional
needs. You yourself are responsible for your own feelings
and creating positive experiences for both your partner and
you whenever you are together.
(2) Love your partner for who they are.
No one in this world is perfect. One day you will find your
partner doing certain things or saying certain things that
will hurt you, disappoint you or anger you. Before you go
into any type of relationship, you have to ask yourself:
"Will I be able to love my partner for who they are. If I am
unhappy or angry with something they have said or done, will
I be able to recognize my unhappiness or anger as against
their speech, actions and behavior, and not against their
persons?"
(3) Will I be able to love myself as much as I love my
partner?
If you cannot love yourself, how are you going to give love
to another? This is a mistake most people make when they go
into a relationship. They become over-obsessive with what
they can give to their partners and what they can do for
their partners. To ensure a fulfilling relationship, you
have to learn to take care of your own needs as well. A true
partner or lover is one who will make sure that you do not
become too dependent on them. You are responsible for your
own feelings and your own emotional needs too. You are a
beautiful being. So, take care of yourself, love yourself,
treat yourself to all the good things in life too, and do
the same to your partner. Very soon you will find true love
always coming your way without any effort on your part!
As always, if you are encountering problems in your
relationship, try to dissolve all of your problems in love.
And you'll be sure you are on your way to a peaceful and
fulfilling relationship!
Thanks dale
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Sunday, September 2, 2007
Sunday, August 12, 2007
Man Confidence
We know that women love their men strong and confident. They love a man that will embrace them and someone who can admit to his mistakes. This article is meant to make issues about men’s confidence a little clearer.
Confidence can only start with right attitude and positive thinking. You have to work on insecurities instead of letting them affect your everyday life. First and foremost you have to believe in yourself because how can you show confidence if you don’t have self belief.
Two many guys deal with what ifs. You can what if everything you do but living like that will just get you depressed. You have to watch your own confidence so if it’s lacking then you have to work on it.
First of all appearance does matter. That doesn’t mean you have to attain Hollywood looks to have confidence. Boyish good looks, magnetism, or big bulging muscles isn’t all it has to be. The important part is to look neat and tidy. Let your charm radiate from within. It really is the simple things that count. Make sure you open doors for girls, get a cab for her. You can be a knight in shining honor with out a white steed.
Another thing to remember is that girls like bad boys. I don’t mean bad boys through criminal behavior but more through mystery and excitement. These kinds of guys are just happy to be themselves. They don’t need approval to be liked. Bad boys exude confidence, individuality, and masculinity.
Guys without confidence are always looking for approval from women. They always act needy and desperate. Guys like this don’t have the confidence to build a relationship so they try and buy relationships with expensive gifts and taking the girls to classy restaurants. Well this might be nice it’s not what women are really looking for in a man.
Women just want a man that’s not scared to show his feelings or to share their feelings. She wants someone that will listen and someone who will give her a hug. Sex is important but any girl would put sex second if she has a strong guy who will be there for her
Dale Mazurek
Dale is working on making a career on line. Himself and his partner have teamed up to help build the largest, honest and most profitable organization on the internet. You can check out how he and his partner are doing at http://unityblog1.blogspot.com/ or check out many of his other blogs at http://dalesblogs.blogspot.com/ or http://www.MyBerryTree.com/bt53423
Confidence can only start with right attitude and positive thinking. You have to work on insecurities instead of letting them affect your everyday life. First and foremost you have to believe in yourself because how can you show confidence if you don’t have self belief.
Two many guys deal with what ifs. You can what if everything you do but living like that will just get you depressed. You have to watch your own confidence so if it’s lacking then you have to work on it.
First of all appearance does matter. That doesn’t mean you have to attain Hollywood looks to have confidence. Boyish good looks, magnetism, or big bulging muscles isn’t all it has to be. The important part is to look neat and tidy. Let your charm radiate from within. It really is the simple things that count. Make sure you open doors for girls, get a cab for her. You can be a knight in shining honor with out a white steed.
Another thing to remember is that girls like bad boys. I don’t mean bad boys through criminal behavior but more through mystery and excitement. These kinds of guys are just happy to be themselves. They don’t need approval to be liked. Bad boys exude confidence, individuality, and masculinity.
Guys without confidence are always looking for approval from women. They always act needy and desperate. Guys like this don’t have the confidence to build a relationship so they try and buy relationships with expensive gifts and taking the girls to classy restaurants. Well this might be nice it’s not what women are really looking for in a man.
Women just want a man that’s not scared to show his feelings or to share their feelings. She wants someone that will listen and someone who will give her a hug. Sex is important but any girl would put sex second if she has a strong guy who will be there for her
Dale Mazurek
Dale is working on making a career on line. Himself and his partner have teamed up to help build the largest, honest and most profitable organization on the internet. You can check out how he and his partner are doing at http://unityblog1.blogspot.com/ or check out many of his other blogs at http://dalesblogs.blogspot.com/ or http://www.MyBerryTree.com/bt53423
Sunday, August 5, 2007
Love And Its Sparks
So many people have so much in their lives but they are missing that one important part in their lives. In this article I will attempt to help you realise just how important love is in your life.
Your bank account is full of cash, you have job security, you have a great reputation, you own your own home, and your health is as great as it can be but still there is something missing in your life that’s keeping you from being happy. You haven’t found someone to love. You now realize that life without love is like your missing a part of your soul.
You have to realize that love is meant to be for life. Love isn’t days, weeks, months or even years but it should be forever. You have to learn how to keep the sparks going in a relationship in order to keep the relationship bright forever.
The short term relationships that we all encounter at one point or another are absolutely useless to our bodies and souls. You will never be happy with the short relationships. A long healthy relationship will keep your soul healthy, happy and joyful.
It is very easy to fall in love but very difficult to keep the sparks burning in that relationship. So before you commit to a long term relationship make sure your partner is as serious as you are. If your partner isn’t serious than the relationship can turn miserable in a hurry so you should get rid of that person and continue looking.
Too many people put their careers in front of their relationships and this is the worst thing you can do. You have to find a convenient balance between the two of them and then it will work. For your soul it’s absolutely important not to starve your soul from love just for your job.
All too often people split up after many successful years in a relationship. Everyone around you is genuinely surprised when they hear of the split up. In order to avoid this you have to make sure the communication inside the relationship always stays open. Talk to each other. A gentle kiss and a caressing touch will go a long way. If all else fails there is no shame in going to counselling to help make the relationship last.
Finding the right person to share the rest of your life with can be a great journey. It’s a ride that you want to take carefully. You need to find someone that shares your values, dreams, fantasies, joys and jokes. You also need someone who will stand by you during the hard times. This person has to be able to understand you and console you through every tough moment you may encounter in your life time.
Keeping those sparks going in your relationship at times can be very difficult but at the end of the day I will guarantee you that it will be worth it to be able to spend the rest of your life with someone you consider your best friend and soul mate.
Dale Mazurek
http://dalesblogs.blogspot.com/
http://unityblog1.blogspot.com/
http://unityberrytree.blogspot.com/
Your bank account is full of cash, you have job security, you have a great reputation, you own your own home, and your health is as great as it can be but still there is something missing in your life that’s keeping you from being happy. You haven’t found someone to love. You now realize that life without love is like your missing a part of your soul.
You have to realize that love is meant to be for life. Love isn’t days, weeks, months or even years but it should be forever. You have to learn how to keep the sparks going in a relationship in order to keep the relationship bright forever.
The short term relationships that we all encounter at one point or another are absolutely useless to our bodies and souls. You will never be happy with the short relationships. A long healthy relationship will keep your soul healthy, happy and joyful.
It is very easy to fall in love but very difficult to keep the sparks burning in that relationship. So before you commit to a long term relationship make sure your partner is as serious as you are. If your partner isn’t serious than the relationship can turn miserable in a hurry so you should get rid of that person and continue looking.
Too many people put their careers in front of their relationships and this is the worst thing you can do. You have to find a convenient balance between the two of them and then it will work. For your soul it’s absolutely important not to starve your soul from love just for your job.
All too often people split up after many successful years in a relationship. Everyone around you is genuinely surprised when they hear of the split up. In order to avoid this you have to make sure the communication inside the relationship always stays open. Talk to each other. A gentle kiss and a caressing touch will go a long way. If all else fails there is no shame in going to counselling to help make the relationship last.
Finding the right person to share the rest of your life with can be a great journey. It’s a ride that you want to take carefully. You need to find someone that shares your values, dreams, fantasies, joys and jokes. You also need someone who will stand by you during the hard times. This person has to be able to understand you and console you through every tough moment you may encounter in your life time.
Keeping those sparks going in your relationship at times can be very difficult but at the end of the day I will guarantee you that it will be worth it to be able to spend the rest of your life with someone you consider your best friend and soul mate.
Dale Mazurek
http://dalesblogs.blogspot.com/
http://unityblog1.blogspot.com/
http://unityberrytree.blogspot.com/
Sunday, July 29, 2007
Long Distance Relationships
Probably one of the most difficult relationships in today’s society is the long distance relationship. First of all jealousy isn’t going to work in this sort of relationship. Expectations have to be established at the very beginning. This has to be done honestly and openly. It’s also very important that you live your own life when you’re apart.
When the two of you are apart its very important you don’t change your lifestyle. You have to continue going out with your friends. The biggest mistake you can make is sitting by the phone waiting for the call. Doing this will definitely drive you crazy.
Probably the biggest thing in failing a long distance relationship is jealousy. If you’re always worried about where your partner is and what they are doing then you’re setting yourself up for a very painful fall.
It’s important that we remember we are human beings and not robots. We crave passion and closeness with other human beings so is it really fair to ask either one of the partners to remain exclusive. You’re basically asking each other to be miserable while apart from one another.
To me a relationship is a relationship. I don’t care if your together every day or apart for months at a time. There should be no give when it comes to exclusivity. If you two care about each other enough you will make it work until you can be closer together for good. The key to any relationship is being open and honest. If you follow these two keys and you both care about one another then this kind of relationship really can work.
Dale Mazurek
Dale has been married for twenty years and considers himself an expert in topics of this sort. You can check out his ever growing blog at http://relationshiptidbits.blogspot.com/ two of his other popular blogs can be found at http://affiliatemarketingfornewbies.blogspot.com and http://fishingtutor.blogspot.com/
When the two of you are apart its very important you don’t change your lifestyle. You have to continue going out with your friends. The biggest mistake you can make is sitting by the phone waiting for the call. Doing this will definitely drive you crazy.
Probably the biggest thing in failing a long distance relationship is jealousy. If you’re always worried about where your partner is and what they are doing then you’re setting yourself up for a very painful fall.
It’s important that we remember we are human beings and not robots. We crave passion and closeness with other human beings so is it really fair to ask either one of the partners to remain exclusive. You’re basically asking each other to be miserable while apart from one another.
To me a relationship is a relationship. I don’t care if your together every day or apart for months at a time. There should be no give when it comes to exclusivity. If you two care about each other enough you will make it work until you can be closer together for good. The key to any relationship is being open and honest. If you follow these two keys and you both care about one another then this kind of relationship really can work.
Dale Mazurek
Dale has been married for twenty years and considers himself an expert in topics of this sort. You can check out his ever growing blog at http://relationshiptidbits.blogspot.com/ two of his other popular blogs can be found at http://affiliatemarketingfornewbies.blogspot.com and http://fishingtutor.blogspot.com/
Wednesday, July 25, 2007
Kissing Is An Art
A kiss is about the best feeling in the world and a topic I can write about over and over again and always bring something new to the table. In this article I am going to describe how kissing is an art.
You are not born a good kisser. Kissing just like anything else needs education and practice. There are definitely worse things in life to do than practicing kissing. In this world there are many great things but nothing is better than a great kiss. The feelings you experience after a great kiss is almost unexplainable. I have written many articles in the past about kissing but none so detailed on different methods.
There is nothing like a dominating kiss. A kiss like this will knock her off of her feet. This is the special kiss that should be used when you haven’t seen your partner in a long time. This is also used as a surprise kiss. There is nothing that drives a woman crazy like the element of surprise. It also can be an outlet for all your sexual frustrations.
When you are kissing her let your hands roam and explore areas that you can. Make sure to stay away from private areas however because this is a kiss. You can think about your next moves later on. This may seem a little off topic but it’s probably one of the most important things I am going to tell you. Before you kiss her make sure your breath is okay. If you have any doubts then go and brush your teeth. You wouldn’t want to kiss her if she had bad breath so why would you expect anything different from her.
There is the explore kiss. You need to spend some time getting to know her mouth. By doing this it shows that you are more interested in her than just getting into her pants. New ways to excite her can be great for both of you. Good for you because you are learning more and more about her. And great for her because she loves the attention.
The good night kiss can be very special. You can take this a little further by running your fingers through her hair and reminding her that you love her. She will go to bed dreaming about you and what could have happened through the night.
Now there is the something special kiss before you go to work in the morning. Make sure you smile at her when you tell her that you will think about her all day long. This will keep her thinking about you all day. These kisses can also be used to see where things are going later. If she kisses you back romantically then maybe there is a chance the kiss will lead to more. However if she kisses you back very quickly and talks about the bills that need to be paid then you know maybe the chances aren’t so good.
A kiss holds great power when it comes to woman. With the right kiss you can make her melt in your hands. Affection is so important and there is no better way to show it then with a kiss. It’s a great quiet way to say I love you.
Dale Mazurek
Dale has been married 20 years and considers himself some what of an expert on topics of this sort. You can check out 3 of his very popular blogs at http://relationshiptidbits.blogspot.com/ or http://stcajo-readshortstories.blogspot.com/ and http://fishingtutor.blogspot.com/
You are not born a good kisser. Kissing just like anything else needs education and practice. There are definitely worse things in life to do than practicing kissing. In this world there are many great things but nothing is better than a great kiss. The feelings you experience after a great kiss is almost unexplainable. I have written many articles in the past about kissing but none so detailed on different methods.
There is nothing like a dominating kiss. A kiss like this will knock her off of her feet. This is the special kiss that should be used when you haven’t seen your partner in a long time. This is also used as a surprise kiss. There is nothing that drives a woman crazy like the element of surprise. It also can be an outlet for all your sexual frustrations.
When you are kissing her let your hands roam and explore areas that you can. Make sure to stay away from private areas however because this is a kiss. You can think about your next moves later on. This may seem a little off topic but it’s probably one of the most important things I am going to tell you. Before you kiss her make sure your breath is okay. If you have any doubts then go and brush your teeth. You wouldn’t want to kiss her if she had bad breath so why would you expect anything different from her.
There is the explore kiss. You need to spend some time getting to know her mouth. By doing this it shows that you are more interested in her than just getting into her pants. New ways to excite her can be great for both of you. Good for you because you are learning more and more about her. And great for her because she loves the attention.
The good night kiss can be very special. You can take this a little further by running your fingers through her hair and reminding her that you love her. She will go to bed dreaming about you and what could have happened through the night.
Now there is the something special kiss before you go to work in the morning. Make sure you smile at her when you tell her that you will think about her all day long. This will keep her thinking about you all day. These kisses can also be used to see where things are going later. If she kisses you back romantically then maybe there is a chance the kiss will lead to more. However if she kisses you back very quickly and talks about the bills that need to be paid then you know maybe the chances aren’t so good.
A kiss holds great power when it comes to woman. With the right kiss you can make her melt in your hands. Affection is so important and there is no better way to show it then with a kiss. It’s a great quiet way to say I love you.
Dale Mazurek
Dale has been married 20 years and considers himself some what of an expert on topics of this sort. You can check out 3 of his very popular blogs at http://relationshiptidbits.blogspot.com/ or http://stcajo-readshortstories.blogspot.com/ and http://fishingtutor.blogspot.com/
Sunday, July 22, 2007
How To Get Clues That Your Partner Is Cheating (Part 3)
Cheating can be one of the most devastating things that can happen to a man or woman in a committed relationship. In the next few articles I intend to bring you up to speed on some clues that you can watch for if you have any thoughts that your partner may be cheating. This will be the second article on this discussion.
Let’s go back to the beginning of a relationship. What really happens before two people decide to get married? They have been dating and checking each other out. We all know that women do the choosing. Men respond to women’s signals and a relationship moves forward at a pace governed by the women’s appetite. So how does a couple who is totally in love and committed to each other end up in the predicament dictated by cheating.
1. You start to notice that he is cleaning his car out every day. He is especially careful to make sure that nothing belonging to the kids is in the car. He won’t allow the car seat or any toys for that fact.
2. You come home from work; your wife tells you that she is going out for coffee with one of her girlfriends. You notice that she’s not wearing her wedding ring.
3. The two of you have been married for several years and your husband has never offered to help you with the laundry but now all of the sudden he always wants to do the laundry as if he has something to hide.
4. You get home from a business trip. You go to give your spouse a kiss and you notice scratches on him or her. When you ask there is no explanation.
5. Things in the bedroom have always been pretty normal but now all of a sudden your spouse wants to start doing new things in the bedroom.
6. The two of you have always enjoyed a pretty good sex life but now all of a sudden your spouse doesn’t want to have sex any more.
7. Then there is the opposite. You guys have had a fairly normal sex life but all of a sudden your spouse wants a lot more sex.
8. Your spouse has been doing a lot of overtime in the last couple of months but at the end of the month the amount of money that goes into the bank account never changes.
This is part three of a short series on clues that your partner is cheating. By all means you can’t take these clues as gospel. Before doing anything rational I would suggest waiting for the rest of the articles to come out and even then I would be careful before accusing someone of something you don’t have proof of.
Dale Mazurek
http://dalesblogs.blogspot.com/
http://unityblog1.blogspot.com/
Let’s go back to the beginning of a relationship. What really happens before two people decide to get married? They have been dating and checking each other out. We all know that women do the choosing. Men respond to women’s signals and a relationship moves forward at a pace governed by the women’s appetite. So how does a couple who is totally in love and committed to each other end up in the predicament dictated by cheating.
1. You start to notice that he is cleaning his car out every day. He is especially careful to make sure that nothing belonging to the kids is in the car. He won’t allow the car seat or any toys for that fact.
2. You come home from work; your wife tells you that she is going out for coffee with one of her girlfriends. You notice that she’s not wearing her wedding ring.
3. The two of you have been married for several years and your husband has never offered to help you with the laundry but now all of the sudden he always wants to do the laundry as if he has something to hide.
4. You get home from a business trip. You go to give your spouse a kiss and you notice scratches on him or her. When you ask there is no explanation.
5. Things in the bedroom have always been pretty normal but now all of a sudden your spouse wants to start doing new things in the bedroom.
6. The two of you have always enjoyed a pretty good sex life but now all of a sudden your spouse doesn’t want to have sex any more.
7. Then there is the opposite. You guys have had a fairly normal sex life but all of a sudden your spouse wants a lot more sex.
8. Your spouse has been doing a lot of overtime in the last couple of months but at the end of the month the amount of money that goes into the bank account never changes.
This is part three of a short series on clues that your partner is cheating. By all means you can’t take these clues as gospel. Before doing anything rational I would suggest waiting for the rest of the articles to come out and even then I would be careful before accusing someone of something you don’t have proof of.
Dale Mazurek
http://dalesblogs.blogspot.com/
http://unityblog1.blogspot.com/
Sunday, May 6, 2007
Women And Trust Issues
In any relationship trust is such a huge factor for all involved usually. In this article I will try and bring women’s trust issues to light a bit and see why they have so much trouble with trust.
Men and women look at trust in a different light. For the most part a man could not care about trust in the beginning. He doesn’t know where the relationship is going and let’s face it at first he is probably only after one thing. When it comes to most women trust is an issue from the very first date. I think this comes from being taught at a young age that strange men can be dangerous and they have to be careful.
The fact that women were taught about not trusting from a very young age carries on with them right through their life. Most women don’t even think their relationship will be short so they are looking for trust right from day one. There is an exception to every rule like women who engage in casual sex or there is the odd woman who just isn’t looking for a relationship but even those are still looking for some sort of trust.
Men have helped greatly to wreck trust issues for women. Let’s face it most men are pigs. They only want one thing and the woman knows that. Of course her guard is going to go up every time she gets involved with a new man. She has to be careful what she says so the man doesn’t take it the wrong way. She also has to listen very carefully to what the man says because she knows that a man will say anything to get what he wants.
There is a very touching issue that affects a woman to trust. It is a sad world that we live in that this should be an issue but it is so it should be mentioned. Very many women are abused at a young age by either a family member or a friend of the family. This alone can wreck a women’s trust for the rest of her life.
As a man if you’re only there for a short time then it’s really not worth it to try and figure her out. However if you think you can make a relationship with this girl then you should take things slow and take time to get to know her. Sex should be the last thing on your mind and getting to know her should be on top of the list. I strongly suggest you don’t push though because that will drive her away quickly. There is no doubt in my mind that once she starts to know and trust you better then she will open up more.
It’s such a fine line out there when it comes to trusting. I don’t blame women for being cautious and careful. However on the other hand a lot of would be relationships have been wrecked due to lack of trust. Women need to know that there are good men out there and they shouldn’t all be painted with the same brush. In that same breathe the men have to stop building a bad name for themselves.
Dale Mazurek
Dale is an expert on articles of this sort because of his studies into these issues. You can check out his blogs at http://relationshiptidbits.blogspot.com/ or http://stcajo-readshortstories.blogspot.com/ and http://fishingtutor.blogspot.com/
Sunday, April 29, 2007
Women And Their Hot Flashes
I’m a male so what do I know about women’s issues. To be honest I only know what I have studied and what other women have told me. Go ahead and read and by all means feel free to comment when you are done.
Hot flashes, you feel a burning feeling on your face and upper body. Your heart beat speeds up, you feel nauseated, you get headaches and many other more than irritating symptoms. You are experiencing what is commonly referred to as “Hot flashes.” What the heck are these? They are the woman’s biological process caused by the hormonal dictates of menopause. That’s it for the most part but it can also be brought on by certain medications or styles of living.
For the average woman menopause happens around age 50. A lowered level of estrogen directly impacts on the hypothalamus. That is the part of ones body that controls sleep, sex hormones and body temperature. The lowering of estrogen concerns the hypothalamus and usually says temperature is too hot. The brain then takes over by telling the heart, nervous system and blood vessels to start eliminating the heat. So what happens in the end? Heart beats quicker, blood vessels open up and the body starts sweating. The bad part about this is that it can happen at any time often causing embarrassing moments for the woman.
85 percent of woman experience these hot flashes as they get close to menopause. About 40 percent continue to have them for longer periods of time. As time goes on hot flashes get worse and longer. Hot flashes can last for a couple of minutes or go as long as hours before the body normalizes. It weird but the most ordinary time for these flashes is between 6 and 8 in the morning and between 6 and 10 in the evening.
You can’t entirely control these issues that conflict so much discomfort on the average woman but there are a few things you can do to battle. Stay away from alcohol, caffeine, diet pills, spicy foods, hot foods, hot tubs and smoking. When you go out it would be smart to dress in layers. Turn the thermostat down where you can. Sleep on a larger bed because of body temperatures between you and your spouse. A very smart thing to do in order to get some sleep take a cold shower. Something else that’s important is if you do have to go to a meeting then go early so you can have your choice of seating. Lastly Tylenol wouldn’t hurt.
There are many different treatment suggestions that lead from counter meds, prescription meds, herbs or vitamins. It is up to the woman to try different thing to see what might help her. For some woman something as simple as a cup of tea before bed is all they need.
Dale Mazurek
Dale has been married for twenty years and talks about subjects such as these because of his studies. You can check out more of his blogs at http://stcajo-readshortstories.blogspot.com/ or http://fishingtutor.blogspot.com/ and http://funtidbits.blogspot.com/
Hot flashes, you feel a burning feeling on your face and upper body. Your heart beat speeds up, you feel nauseated, you get headaches and many other more than irritating symptoms. You are experiencing what is commonly referred to as “Hot flashes.” What the heck are these? They are the woman’s biological process caused by the hormonal dictates of menopause. That’s it for the most part but it can also be brought on by certain medications or styles of living.
For the average woman menopause happens around age 50. A lowered level of estrogen directly impacts on the hypothalamus. That is the part of ones body that controls sleep, sex hormones and body temperature. The lowering of estrogen concerns the hypothalamus and usually says temperature is too hot. The brain then takes over by telling the heart, nervous system and blood vessels to start eliminating the heat. So what happens in the end? Heart beats quicker, blood vessels open up and the body starts sweating. The bad part about this is that it can happen at any time often causing embarrassing moments for the woman.
85 percent of woman experience these hot flashes as they get close to menopause. About 40 percent continue to have them for longer periods of time. As time goes on hot flashes get worse and longer. Hot flashes can last for a couple of minutes or go as long as hours before the body normalizes. It weird but the most ordinary time for these flashes is between 6 and 8 in the morning and between 6 and 10 in the evening.
You can’t entirely control these issues that conflict so much discomfort on the average woman but there are a few things you can do to battle. Stay away from alcohol, caffeine, diet pills, spicy foods, hot foods, hot tubs and smoking. When you go out it would be smart to dress in layers. Turn the thermostat down where you can. Sleep on a larger bed because of body temperatures between you and your spouse. A very smart thing to do in order to get some sleep take a cold shower. Something else that’s important is if you do have to go to a meeting then go early so you can have your choice of seating. Lastly Tylenol wouldn’t hurt.
There are many different treatment suggestions that lead from counter meds, prescription meds, herbs or vitamins. It is up to the woman to try different thing to see what might help her. For some woman something as simple as a cup of tea before bed is all they need.
Dale Mazurek
Dale has been married for twenty years and talks about subjects such as these because of his studies. You can check out more of his blogs at http://stcajo-readshortstories.blogspot.com/ or http://fishingtutor.blogspot.com/ and http://funtidbits.blogspot.com/
Saturday, April 14, 2007
What To And Not To Do During Kissing
Don’t ever think you know there is everything to know about sex. No matter what you know and practice there is always going to be small things you haven’t learnt yet. I’m sure you have better things to do with your life than trying to learn everything about sex so when you can learn a new tip it definitely doesn’t hurt you.
1. Kissing is one of the oldest expressions of love. You can see it everywhere from a mother kissing her child good night. A grandmother giving her grandchild a good bye kiss or a very romantic French kiss between two lovers.
2. Nobody was born knowing how to kiss so just like anything else you get better with practice. It’s not an easy thing to get a bunch of practice in this so don’t be embarrassed when you’re not very good at it at first.
3. We can thank the French for introducing the act of French Kissing. While kissing has always been a universal sign of love French Kissing or the intimate play of tongues was introduced to us by the western world, from there it has spread around the world.
4. You can’t rush that first kiss with a new girl. You have to make sure that the girl is willing to go for this kiss. If she looks nervous and fidgety then it might not be the right time to go for that first kiss. This might be a good time to give her some space.
5. I would not recommend French kissing on the first date unless you know the date your on is only meant for one thing. Other than that French kissing should be saved for the last or next date.
6. Girls hate when guys shove their tongues down their throats and make it impossible for them to breathe. Therefore you as a guy have to be careful to keep it comfortable for the girl. Remember your sharing a very intimate moment so if you make it uncomfortable the feelings will be gone out of it real quick.
7. If you really want to turn your girl off then come at her with your tongue hanging out. This will turn off even the most promiscuous girl. You have to be able to read her and if the girl is willing to get a little friskier then use your imagination and go ahead and push a little farther.
Most times taking it slow is the best way to go. However if you and your partner come out of a long passionate kissing session tired and exhausted then you are probably headed in the right direction. It means she is enjoying it as much as you and chances are she will go further but remember rushing things will get you into trouble.
Dale has been married for over twenty years and because of this considers himself somewhat of a relationship expert. You can check out his relationship blog at http://relationshiptidbits.blogspot.com/
Or check out two more of his very popular blogs at http://stcajo-readshortstories.blogspot.com/
And http://fishingtutor.blogspot.com/
1. Kissing is one of the oldest expressions of love. You can see it everywhere from a mother kissing her child good night. A grandmother giving her grandchild a good bye kiss or a very romantic French kiss between two lovers.
2. Nobody was born knowing how to kiss so just like anything else you get better with practice. It’s not an easy thing to get a bunch of practice in this so don’t be embarrassed when you’re not very good at it at first.
3. We can thank the French for introducing the act of French Kissing. While kissing has always been a universal sign of love French Kissing or the intimate play of tongues was introduced to us by the western world, from there it has spread around the world.
4. You can’t rush that first kiss with a new girl. You have to make sure that the girl is willing to go for this kiss. If she looks nervous and fidgety then it might not be the right time to go for that first kiss. This might be a good time to give her some space.
5. I would not recommend French kissing on the first date unless you know the date your on is only meant for one thing. Other than that French kissing should be saved for the last or next date.
6. Girls hate when guys shove their tongues down their throats and make it impossible for them to breathe. Therefore you as a guy have to be careful to keep it comfortable for the girl. Remember your sharing a very intimate moment so if you make it uncomfortable the feelings will be gone out of it real quick.
7. If you really want to turn your girl off then come at her with your tongue hanging out. This will turn off even the most promiscuous girl. You have to be able to read her and if the girl is willing to get a little friskier then use your imagination and go ahead and push a little farther.
Most times taking it slow is the best way to go. However if you and your partner come out of a long passionate kissing session tired and exhausted then you are probably headed in the right direction. It means she is enjoying it as much as you and chances are she will go further but remember rushing things will get you into trouble.
Dale has been married for over twenty years and because of this considers himself somewhat of a relationship expert. You can check out his relationship blog at http://relationshiptidbits.blogspot.com/
Or check out two more of his very popular blogs at http://stcajo-readshortstories.blogspot.com/
And http://fishingtutor.blogspot.com/
Wednesday, April 11, 2007
What Do Women Like (Part 2)
Don’t be surprised when I tell you that women fantasize just like men. They not be as open about it or they keep it to themselves in fear of embarrassment. In this two part article I will discuss some of the top fantasies of a woman. This article is not intended to go back to your mate with and say see I know you want to do this. You should never push your partner to reveal their fantasies because they are theirs and if they want to include you they will. Fantasy can be a great tool in the bedroom to spice up a sex life.
1. Two Women
This should be no surprise. Its public knowledge that women can be better at pleasing other women than men. This isn’t a knock towards men. The nice thing about this fantasy is that the man is usually a willing partner. However you have to be careful because adding another woman can spring up some jealousies later.
2. The Oldest Trade In History
Women quite often like to pretend they are prostitutes. With this fantasy you should role-play the entire scenario. You should ask how much , pick her up, and after everything is said and done you should pay her and since she’s your real life partner it wouldnt hurt to give a nice tip.
3. Three Way
Probably one of women’s biggest fantasies is having two men in bed with her. This one is tough on guys but it can be very rewarding for a relationship. A woman loves to have two guys pleasuring her that only guys can. Once again though if you are in any way insecure about our relationship then this might not be the one you want to pursue.
4. She’s The Man
Most guys would say absolutely not to this one but for the few that do give in they are doing a wonderful thing for their partner. A girl likes to use a strap on with their partner. It makes them feel like they are in control. There are some women out there who want the power and this is definitely a way to give it to them.
5. Assault
While I am reluctant to even include this one you would be surprised how many women fantasize about being raped. Again this is role playing but I would be careful how far I take it. Rape is a very serious issue and not something to be taken lightly but some girls like it when their man roughs them up, rips their clothes off and takes all the control away.
These are only meant to be tips. There has to be two willing partners. The right fantasy can do wonders to spice up your sex life. But guys I also want you to remember there is nothing that turns a girl on more than good old fashioned love making.
This is the end of my last article entitled What Do Women Like. While these are fantasies that women like to get involved in at times remember most of the time it is just fantasy. They use the scenarios to heighten their orgasms. So be careful to never push your partner into something they really don’t want to do
Dale Mazurek
Dale has been married for twenty years and considers himself somewhat of an expert on topics that can affect relationships. You can check out his interactive relationship blog at http://relationshiptidbits.blogspot.com/ also check out two more of his blogs that are getting rave reviews. http://fishingtutor.blogspot.com/ and http://affiliatemarketingfornewbies.blogspot.com/
1. Two Women
This should be no surprise. Its public knowledge that women can be better at pleasing other women than men. This isn’t a knock towards men. The nice thing about this fantasy is that the man is usually a willing partner. However you have to be careful because adding another woman can spring up some jealousies later.
2. The Oldest Trade In History
Women quite often like to pretend they are prostitutes. With this fantasy you should role-play the entire scenario. You should ask how much , pick her up, and after everything is said and done you should pay her and since she’s your real life partner it wouldnt hurt to give a nice tip.
3. Three Way
Probably one of women’s biggest fantasies is having two men in bed with her. This one is tough on guys but it can be very rewarding for a relationship. A woman loves to have two guys pleasuring her that only guys can. Once again though if you are in any way insecure about our relationship then this might not be the one you want to pursue.
4. She’s The Man
Most guys would say absolutely not to this one but for the few that do give in they are doing a wonderful thing for their partner. A girl likes to use a strap on with their partner. It makes them feel like they are in control. There are some women out there who want the power and this is definitely a way to give it to them.
5. Assault
While I am reluctant to even include this one you would be surprised how many women fantasize about being raped. Again this is role playing but I would be careful how far I take it. Rape is a very serious issue and not something to be taken lightly but some girls like it when their man roughs them up, rips their clothes off and takes all the control away.
These are only meant to be tips. There has to be two willing partners. The right fantasy can do wonders to spice up your sex life. But guys I also want you to remember there is nothing that turns a girl on more than good old fashioned love making.
This is the end of my last article entitled What Do Women Like. While these are fantasies that women like to get involved in at times remember most of the time it is just fantasy. They use the scenarios to heighten their orgasms. So be careful to never push your partner into something they really don’t want to do
Dale Mazurek
Dale has been married for twenty years and considers himself somewhat of an expert on topics that can affect relationships. You can check out his interactive relationship blog at http://relationshiptidbits.blogspot.com/ also check out two more of his blogs that are getting rave reviews. http://fishingtutor.blogspot.com/ and http://affiliatemarketingfornewbies.blogspot.com/
Sunday, April 8, 2007
What Do Women Like (Part 1)
Don’t be surprised when I tell you that women fantasize just like men. They not be as open about it or they keep it to themselves in fear of embarrassment. In this two part article I will discuss some of the top fantasies of a woman. This article is not intended to go back to your mate with and say see I know you want to do this. You should never push your partner to reveal their fantasies because they are theirs and if they want to include you they will. Fantasy can be a great tool in the bedroom to spice up a sex life.
1. Sex With Strangers
Women fantasize about sex with strangers. This fantasy is very common. There is no pressure when you’re with someone you don’t know. They know they can be wild because there isn’t going to be a second meeting and the best part is they won’t be judged.
2. The Little Girl One
Often woman like to be treated like a little girl. They like the control taken away from them and put into the hands of their partner. They like to be told what to say and they even like to get light spankings for being bad. In some cases the women even want to dress up like little girls.
3. Letting Everyone See
Women love the thought of making love in public. Knowing that other people are watching in the heat of the moment is a huge turn on and usually multiplies the intensity of their orgasms. Just be careful if you do fulfil this fantasy because getting caught by the wrong person in public can be quite embarrassing.
4. Domination
This one I am not a fan of but lots of women love it. They get turned on by being told what to do. They like to give all the control to their partner. In domination the woman doesn’t make a move until first being told. This fantasy is actually quite popular.
5. Like It Rough
Another one that I am not a big fan of his roughing up your girl. There’s enough real abuse out there but for the ladies that like it that’s there prerogative. It’s not always physical. Some woman might not like the hitting part but would rather be yelled at. Woman have told me what a great turn on this is but a few have told me that they do worry that there partner will get carried away.
This is the end of my first article entitled What Do Women Like. While these are fantasies that women like to get involved in at times remember most of the time it is just fantasy. They use the scenarios to heighten their orgasms. So be careful to never push your partner into something they really don’t want to do
Dale Mazurek
Dale has been married for twenty years and considers himself somewhat of an expert on topics that can affect relationships. You can check out his interactive relationship blog at http://relationshiptidbits.blogspot.com/ also check out two more of his blogs that are getting rave reviews. http://fishingtutor.blogspot.com/ and http://affiliatemarketingfornewbies.blogspot.com/
1. Sex With Strangers
Women fantasize about sex with strangers. This fantasy is very common. There is no pressure when you’re with someone you don’t know. They know they can be wild because there isn’t going to be a second meeting and the best part is they won’t be judged.
2. The Little Girl One
Often woman like to be treated like a little girl. They like the control taken away from them and put into the hands of their partner. They like to be told what to say and they even like to get light spankings for being bad. In some cases the women even want to dress up like little girls.
3. Letting Everyone See
Women love the thought of making love in public. Knowing that other people are watching in the heat of the moment is a huge turn on and usually multiplies the intensity of their orgasms. Just be careful if you do fulfil this fantasy because getting caught by the wrong person in public can be quite embarrassing.
4. Domination
This one I am not a fan of but lots of women love it. They get turned on by being told what to do. They like to give all the control to their partner. In domination the woman doesn’t make a move until first being told. This fantasy is actually quite popular.
5. Like It Rough
Another one that I am not a big fan of his roughing up your girl. There’s enough real abuse out there but for the ladies that like it that’s there prerogative. It’s not always physical. Some woman might not like the hitting part but would rather be yelled at. Woman have told me what a great turn on this is but a few have told me that they do worry that there partner will get carried away.
This is the end of my first article entitled What Do Women Like. While these are fantasies that women like to get involved in at times remember most of the time it is just fantasy. They use the scenarios to heighten their orgasms. So be careful to never push your partner into something they really don’t want to do
Dale Mazurek
Dale has been married for twenty years and considers himself somewhat of an expert on topics that can affect relationships. You can check out his interactive relationship blog at http://relationshiptidbits.blogspot.com/ also check out two more of his blogs that are getting rave reviews. http://fishingtutor.blogspot.com/ and http://affiliatemarketingfornewbies.blogspot.com/
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