Cheating can be one of the most devastating things that can happen to a man or woman in a committed relationship. In the next few articles I intend to bring you up to speed on some clues that you can watch for if you have any thoughts that your partner may be cheating. This will be the second article on this discussion.
Let’s go back to the beginning of a relationship. What really happens before two people decide to get married? They have been dating and checking each other out. We all know that women do the choosing. Men respond to women’s signals and a relationship moves forward at a pace governed by the women’s appetite. So how does a couple who is totally in love and committed to each other end up in the predicament dictated by cheating.
1. You start to notice that he is cleaning his car out every day. He is especially careful to make sure that nothing belonging to the kids is in the car. He won’t allow the car seat or any toys for that fact.
2. You come home from work; your wife tells you that she is going out for coffee with one of her girlfriends. You notice that she’s not wearing her wedding ring.
3. The two of you have been married for several years and your husband has never offered to help you with the laundry but now all of the sudden he always wants to do the laundry as if he has something to hide.
4. You get home from a business trip. You go to give your spouse a kiss and you notice scratches on him or her. When you ask there is no explanation.
5. Things in the bedroom have always been pretty normal but now all of a sudden your spouse wants to start doing new things in the bedroom.
6. The two of you have always enjoyed a pretty good sex life but now all of a sudden your spouse doesn’t want to have sex any more.
7. Then there is the opposite. You guys have had a fairly normal sex life but all of a sudden your spouse wants a lot more sex.
8. Your spouse has been doing a lot of overtime in the last couple of months but at the end of the month the amount of money that goes into the bank account never changes.
This is part three of a short series on clues that your partner is cheating. By all means you can’t take these clues as gospel. Before doing anything rational I would suggest waiting for the rest of the articles to come out and even then I would be careful before accusing someone of something you don’t have proof of.
Dale Mazurek
http://dalesblogs.blogspot.com/
http://unityblog1.blogspot.com/
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Sunday, July 22, 2007
Friday, July 20, 2007
How To Get Clues That Your Partner Is Cheating (Part 1)
Cheating can be one of the most devastating things that can happen to a man or woman in a committed relationship. In the next few articles I intend to bring you up to speed on some clues that you can watch for if you have any thoughts that your partner may be cheating.
Let’s go back to the beginning of a relationship. What really happens before two people decide to get married? They have been dating and checking each other out. We all know that women do the choosing. Men respond to women’s signals and a relationship moves forward at a pace governed by the women’s appetite. So how does a couple who is totally in love and committed to each other end up in the predicament dictated by cheating.
1. You and your spouse have had all the children you want. The both of you sit down and decide a vasectomy is the best way to go. You have the simple operation and everything is great. About a year later you are looking for something in her night table and you find birth control pills that are being used.
2. Your spouse and you have always got along with each other’s friends. One day you notice that these friends are now acting weird toward your spouse. To me this gives me the indication that they know something about your partner that he or she may be hiding from you.
3. Forever you and your spouse have always talked about things that have bothered them. There have never been secrets in your relationship. Next thing you notice is that your spouse isn’t talking to you and definitely isn’t confiding in you.
4. You’re going through your internet bill one day and you notice there is a new email account added to the bill. You had no clue there was a new email address. When you ask your partner about it they just tell you that it’s not important but they don’t offer to show you.
5. You give your spouse a kiss before he goes to work and you notice he has your favourite cologne on. You are very happy that he’s wearing it. When he gets home you give him a kiss and you notice that he smells like different cologne.
6. Your partner has never had any interest in going to the gym but all of a sudden he or she has a sudden interest in taking on many, many vigorous work outs at a gym across from town.
7. Your both sitting on the couch one evening watching a movie and all of the sudden you hear a phone ringing. She looks a bit confused when she reaches into her purse to shut the phone off. When you ask her why she didn’t tell you about the phone she claims that she just forgot about it.
This is part one of a short series on clues that your partner is cheating. By all means you can’t take these clues as gospel. Before doing anything rational I would suggest waiting for the rest of the articles to come out and even then I would be careful before accusing someone of something you don’t have proof of.
Dale Mazurek
http://dalesblogs.blogspot.com/
http://unityblog1.blogspot.com/
Let’s go back to the beginning of a relationship. What really happens before two people decide to get married? They have been dating and checking each other out. We all know that women do the choosing. Men respond to women’s signals and a relationship moves forward at a pace governed by the women’s appetite. So how does a couple who is totally in love and committed to each other end up in the predicament dictated by cheating.
1. You and your spouse have had all the children you want. The both of you sit down and decide a vasectomy is the best way to go. You have the simple operation and everything is great. About a year later you are looking for something in her night table and you find birth control pills that are being used.
2. Your spouse and you have always got along with each other’s friends. One day you notice that these friends are now acting weird toward your spouse. To me this gives me the indication that they know something about your partner that he or she may be hiding from you.
3. Forever you and your spouse have always talked about things that have bothered them. There have never been secrets in your relationship. Next thing you notice is that your spouse isn’t talking to you and definitely isn’t confiding in you.
4. You’re going through your internet bill one day and you notice there is a new email account added to the bill. You had no clue there was a new email address. When you ask your partner about it they just tell you that it’s not important but they don’t offer to show you.
5. You give your spouse a kiss before he goes to work and you notice he has your favourite cologne on. You are very happy that he’s wearing it. When he gets home you give him a kiss and you notice that he smells like different cologne.
6. Your partner has never had any interest in going to the gym but all of a sudden he or she has a sudden interest in taking on many, many vigorous work outs at a gym across from town.
7. Your both sitting on the couch one evening watching a movie and all of the sudden you hear a phone ringing. She looks a bit confused when she reaches into her purse to shut the phone off. When you ask her why she didn’t tell you about the phone she claims that she just forgot about it.
This is part one of a short series on clues that your partner is cheating. By all means you can’t take these clues as gospel. Before doing anything rational I would suggest waiting for the rest of the articles to come out and even then I would be careful before accusing someone of something you don’t have proof of.
Dale Mazurek
http://dalesblogs.blogspot.com/
http://unityblog1.blogspot.com/
Monday, July 9, 2007
How To Get Clues That Your Partner Is Cheating (Part 2)
Cheating can be one of the most devastating things that can happen to a man or woman in a committed relationship. In the next few articles I intend to bring you up to speed on some clues that you can watch for if you have any thoughts that your partner may be cheating. This will be the second article on this discussion.
Let’s go back to the beginning of a relationship. What really happens before two people decide to get married? They have been dating and checking each other out. We all know that women do the choosing. Men respond to women’s signals and a relationship moves forward at a pace governed by the women’s appetite. So how does a couple who is totally in love and committed to each other end up in the predicament dictated by cheating.
1. You take your spouse’s truck to the grocery store. On the way there you put the sun visor down to keep the sun out of your eyes and you notice some phone bills. When you have a look at them you notice that it is a personal cell phone bill that has his office for a billing address.
2. You’re doing your spouse’s laundry early one Saturday morning. You go to pick up his jeans and his wallet falls out spilling the contents all over the place. You notice condoms fall on the floor. You instantly wonder why he has condoms when you are already on the pill.
3. You’re snoopy and don’t really mean nothing by it but you pick up your spouse’s phone to play with it. While fooling around you notice that your spouse has deleted all of his or her incoming calls.
4. You notice that he quickly deletes all his emails and his inbox is usually empty when before the emails used to accumulate.
5. He starts asking you questions about what you have been doing. He accuses you of things that have no merit. This is usually done out of guilt
6. You notice a lot of weird hypothetical questions coming from him. Questions like “Do you think it’s possible to love more than one person?”
7. This may seem trivial but you notice some of his old underwear missing and then you start to notice new underwear in its place. This normally wouldn’t be a huge issue except for the fact that you have always bought his underwear.
This is part one of a short series on clues that your partner is cheating. By all means you can’t take these clues as gospel. Before doing anything rational I would suggest waiting for the rest of the articles to come out and even then I would be careful before accusing someone of something you don’t have proof of.
Dale Mazurek
Dale is working on making a career on line. Himself and his partner have teamed up to help build the largest, honest and most profitable organization on the internet. You can check out how he and his partner are doing at http://unityblog1.blogspot.com/ or check out many of his other blogs at http://dalesblogs.blogspot.com/
Let’s go back to the beginning of a relationship. What really happens before two people decide to get married? They have been dating and checking each other out. We all know that women do the choosing. Men respond to women’s signals and a relationship moves forward at a pace governed by the women’s appetite. So how does a couple who is totally in love and committed to each other end up in the predicament dictated by cheating.
1. You take your spouse’s truck to the grocery store. On the way there you put the sun visor down to keep the sun out of your eyes and you notice some phone bills. When you have a look at them you notice that it is a personal cell phone bill that has his office for a billing address.
2. You’re doing your spouse’s laundry early one Saturday morning. You go to pick up his jeans and his wallet falls out spilling the contents all over the place. You notice condoms fall on the floor. You instantly wonder why he has condoms when you are already on the pill.
3. You’re snoopy and don’t really mean nothing by it but you pick up your spouse’s phone to play with it. While fooling around you notice that your spouse has deleted all of his or her incoming calls.
4. You notice that he quickly deletes all his emails and his inbox is usually empty when before the emails used to accumulate.
5. He starts asking you questions about what you have been doing. He accuses you of things that have no merit. This is usually done out of guilt
6. You notice a lot of weird hypothetical questions coming from him. Questions like “Do you think it’s possible to love more than one person?”
7. This may seem trivial but you notice some of his old underwear missing and then you start to notice new underwear in its place. This normally wouldn’t be a huge issue except for the fact that you have always bought his underwear.
This is part one of a short series on clues that your partner is cheating. By all means you can’t take these clues as gospel. Before doing anything rational I would suggest waiting for the rest of the articles to come out and even then I would be careful before accusing someone of something you don’t have proof of.
Dale Mazurek
Dale is working on making a career on line. Himself and his partner have teamed up to help build the largest, honest and most profitable organization on the internet. You can check out how he and his partner are doing at http://unityblog1.blogspot.com/ or check out many of his other blogs at http://dalesblogs.blogspot.com/
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