3 Tips You Wish You Know Earlier Before You Go Into Any Type of Relationship!

If you are in a relationship right now, or are thinking of
going into one, there are 3 very important tips you should
know and questions you should ask yourself before you ever
get yourself into a relationship. This could save you from a
lot of heartache and pain when you are involved in a love
relationship.

(1) Your lover does not owe you your happiness, peace or
joy.
Happiness is a state of mind we choose to have. All of your
happiness, and all of your suffering, are created by you and
they do not come from outside of you, or from others. Before
you go into any type of relationship, ask yourself these
questions: "Do I really, really, really know how to walk
away from disappointment and fear? Will I be able to find
the person that I am now even after I go into this
relationship and begin a new way of life?" In short, you
should not be dependent on your partner on your emotional
needs. You yourself are responsible for your own feelings
and creating positive experiences for both your partner and
you whenever you are together.

(2) Love your partner for who they are.
No one in this world is perfect. One day you will find your
partner doing certain things or saying certain things that
will hurt you, disappoint you or anger you. Before you go
into any type of relationship, you have to ask yourself:
"Will I be able to love my partner for who they are. If I am
unhappy or angry with something they have said or done, will
I be able to recognize my unhappiness or anger as against
their speech, actions and behavior, and not against their
persons?"

(3) Will I be able to love myself as much as I love my
partner?
If you cannot love yourself, how are you going to give love
to another? This is a mistake most people make when they go
into a relationship. They become over-obsessive with what
they can give to their partners and what they can do for
their partners. To ensure a fulfilling relationship, you
have to learn to take care of your own needs as well. A true
partner or lover is one who will make sure that you do not
become too dependent on them. You are responsible for your
own feelings and your own emotional needs too. You are a
beautiful being. So, take care of yourself, love yourself,
treat yourself to all the good things in life too, and do
the same to your partner. Very soon you will find true love
always coming your way without any effort on your part!

As always, if you are encountering problems in your
relationship, try to dissolve all of your problems in love.
And you'll be sure you are on your way to a peaceful and
fulfilling relationship!

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Love And Its Sparks

So many people have so much in their lives but they are missing that one important part in their lives. In this article I will attempt to help you realise just how important love is in your life.
Your bank account is full of cash, you have job security, you have a great reputation, you own your own home, and your health is as great as it can be but still there is something missing in your life that’s keeping you from being happy. You haven’t found someone to love. You now realize that life without love is like your missing a part of your soul.
You have to realize that love is meant to be for life. Love isn’t days, weeks, months or even years but it should be forever. You have to learn how to keep the sparks going in a relationship in order to keep the relationship bright forever.
The short term relationships that we all encounter at one point or another are absolutely useless to our bodies and souls. You will never be happy with the short relationships. A long healthy relationship will keep your soul healthy, happy and joyful.
It is very easy to fall in love but very difficult to keep the sparks burning in that relationship. So before you commit to a long term relationship make sure your partner is as serious as you are. If your partner isn’t serious than the relationship can turn miserable in a hurry so you should get rid of that person and continue looking.
Too many people put their careers in front of their relationships and this is the worst thing you can do. You have to find a convenient balance between the two of them and then it will work. For your soul it’s absolutely important not to starve your soul from love just for your job.
All too often people split up after many successful years in a relationship. Everyone around you is genuinely surprised when they hear of the split up. In order to avoid this you have to make sure the communication inside the relationship always stays open. Talk to each other. A gentle kiss and a caressing touch will go a long way. If all else fails there is no shame in going to counselling to help make the relationship last.
Finding the right person to share the rest of your life with can be a great journey. It’s a ride that you want to take carefully. You need to find someone that shares your values, dreams, fantasies, joys and jokes. You also need someone who will stand by you during the hard times. This person has to be able to understand you and console you through every tough moment you may encounter in your life time.
Keeping those sparks going in your relationship at times can be very difficult but at the end of the day I will guarantee you that it will be worth it to be able to spend the rest of your life with someone you consider your best friend and soul mate.


Dale Mazurek
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Long Distance Relationships

Probably one of the most difficult relationships in today’s society is the long distance relationship. First of all jealousy isn’t going to work in this sort of relationship. Expectations have to be established at the very beginning. This has to be done honestly and openly. It’s also very important that you live your own life when you’re apart.

When the two of you are apart its very important you don’t change your lifestyle. You have to continue going out with your friends. The biggest mistake you can make is sitting by the phone waiting for the call. Doing this will definitely drive you crazy.

Probably the biggest thing in failing a long distance relationship is jealousy. If you’re always worried about where your partner is and what they are doing then you’re setting yourself up for a very painful fall.

It’s important that we remember we are human beings and not robots. We crave passion and closeness with other human beings so is it really fair to ask either one of the partners to remain exclusive. You’re basically asking each other to be miserable while apart from one another.

To me a relationship is a relationship. I don’t care if your together every day or apart for months at a time. There should be no give when it comes to exclusivity. If you two care about each other enough you will make it work until you can be closer together for good. The key to any relationship is being open and honest. If you follow these two keys and you both care about one another then this kind of relationship really can work.

Dale Mazurek

Dale has been married for twenty years and considers himself an expert in topics of this sort. You can check out his ever growing blog at http://relationshiptidbits.blogspot.com/ two of his other popular blogs can be found at http://affiliatemarketingfornewbies.blogspot.com and http://fishingtutor.blogspot.com/

Kissing Is An Art

A kiss is about the best feeling in the world and a topic I can write about over and over again and always bring something new to the table. In this article I am going to describe how kissing is an art.

You are not born a good kisser. Kissing just like anything else needs education and practice. There are definitely worse things in life to do than practicing kissing. In this world there are many great things but nothing is better than a great kiss. The feelings you experience after a great kiss is almost unexplainable. I have written many articles in the past about kissing but none so detailed on different methods.

There is nothing like a dominating kiss. A kiss like this will knock her off of her feet. This is the special kiss that should be used when you haven’t seen your partner in a long time. This is also used as a surprise kiss. There is nothing that drives a woman crazy like the element of surprise. It also can be an outlet for all your sexual frustrations.

When you are kissing her let your hands roam and explore areas that you can. Make sure to stay away from private areas however because this is a kiss. You can think about your next moves later on. This may seem a little off topic but it’s probably one of the most important things I am going to tell you. Before you kiss her make sure your breath is okay. If you have any doubts then go and brush your teeth. You wouldn’t want to kiss her if she had bad breath so why would you expect anything different from her.

There is the explore kiss. You need to spend some time getting to know her mouth. By doing this it shows that you are more interested in her than just getting into her pants. New ways to excite her can be great for both of you. Good for you because you are learning more and more about her. And great for her because she loves the attention.

The good night kiss can be very special. You can take this a little further by running your fingers through her hair and reminding her that you love her. She will go to bed dreaming about you and what could have happened through the night.

Now there is the something special kiss before you go to work in the morning. Make sure you smile at her when you tell her that you will think about her all day long. This will keep her thinking about you all day. These kisses can also be used to see where things are going later. If she kisses you back romantically then maybe there is a chance the kiss will lead to more. However if she kisses you back very quickly and talks about the bills that need to be paid then you know maybe the chances aren’t so good.

A kiss holds great power when it comes to woman. With the right kiss you can make her melt in your hands. Affection is so important and there is no better way to show it then with a kiss. It’s a great quiet way to say I love you.

Dale Mazurek

Dale has been married 20 years and considers himself some what of an expert on topics of this sort. You can check out 3 of his very popular blogs at http://relationshiptidbits.blogspot.com/ or http://stcajo-readshortstories.blogspot.com/ and http://fishingtutor.blogspot.com/

How To Get Clues That Your Partner Is Cheating (Part 1)

Cheating can be one of the most devastating things that can happen to a man or woman in a committed relationship. In the next few articles I intend to bring you up to speed on some clues that you can watch for if you have any thoughts that your partner may be cheating.

Let’s go back to the beginning of a relationship. What really happens before two people decide to get married? They have been dating and checking each other out. We all know that women do the choosing. Men respond to women’s signals and a relationship moves forward at a pace governed by the women’s appetite. So how does a couple who is totally in love and committed to each other end up in the predicament dictated by cheating.

1. You and your spouse have had all the children you want. The both of you sit down and decide a vasectomy is the best way to go. You have the simple operation and everything is great. About a year later you are looking for something in her night table and you find birth control pills that are being used.
2. Your spouse and you have always got along with each other’s friends. One day you notice that these friends are now acting weird toward your spouse. To me this gives me the indication that they know something about your partner that he or she may be hiding from you.
3. Forever you and your spouse have always talked about things that have bothered them. There have never been secrets in your relationship. Next thing you notice is that your spouse isn’t talking to you and definitely isn’t confiding in you.
4. You’re going through your internet bill one day and you notice there is a new email account added to the bill. You had no clue there was a new email address. When you ask your partner about it they just tell you that it’s not important but they don’t offer to show you.
5. You give your spouse a kiss before he goes to work and you notice he has your favourite cologne on. You are very happy that he’s wearing it. When he gets home you give him a kiss and you notice that he smells like different cologne.
6. Your partner has never had any interest in going to the gym but all of a sudden he or she has a sudden interest in taking on many, many vigorous work outs at a gym across from town.
7. Your both sitting on the couch one evening watching a movie and all of the sudden you hear a phone ringing. She looks a bit confused when she reaches into her purse to shut the phone off. When you ask her why she didn’t tell you about the phone she claims that she just forgot about it.
This is part one of a short series on clues that your partner is cheating. By all means you can’t take these clues as gospel. Before doing anything rational I would suggest waiting for the rest of the articles to come out and even then I would be careful before accusing someone of something you don’t have proof of.

Dale Mazurek

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Is Impotence All In Your Mind

Impotence is a mans inability or difficulty to have or maintain an erection. While there are physical reasons for this, in this article I plan to show you the psychological factors involved with impotence.

There are many reasons for psychological impotence. Depression, stress, pressures from home or work, anxiety, relationship problems, arguments, insecurities or even low self-esteem. Then there could be sexual boredom or los of intimacy. Since these problems are all emotional they tend to be easier to get through than physical problems.

Curing impotency that’s psychological has a very high success rate. At first it’s going to seem tough but only if you don’t want to fix it or worse you don’t even know you have a problem. But once you have finally decided that you do have a problem and you do need to work on it then there are different ways to treat it.

Psychosexual Therapy is the first way you should go. In this sort of therapy are given suggestions, techniques and or exercises to help spice up the relationship. This can be done through talks, discussions, and activities that can lift the stress or anxiety that hasten impotence.

Another is behavior modification. How this works is by bringing a new and positive outlook on ones self importance. Your partner can be a great help in this process. The down side of this is that it can take lots of time. The nice thing is that it is cheaper and it not only helps with impotence but can also help with ones personality.

- You need to talk to your partner about the things that are going on. You need to put some real thought into how you feel about your partner, yourself and your member.

- It’s very important to talk to your partner. It helps take some of the burden off of you and it’s good to know you have someone to listen to. If your partner is part of the problem then talking is good. The two of you should talk so you can come up with some solutions. Something very important is to not let the discussions turn into an argument.

- Another important thing to look at is lifestyle and how it affects your penile health. You take care of the rest of your body so why wouldn’t you take care of your penis? You have to trim fat out of your diet and be careful with the alcohol and nicotine input. Learn to eat healthy and do exercises.

- If after you have tried all the above and your still not seeing success then it may be time to see a professional therapist. What’s so very important to remember is that you shouldn’t be embarrassed by this problem and also remember that you’re not on your own. There is lots of help out there for you.

Dale Mazurek

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Men Are You Ejaculating Too Fast?

Through my research I have found out that approximately 29% of men are bothered by premature ejaculation. Men and women dread this situation and for good reason. Premature ejaculation can steal precious tender moments with your loved one.

Guilt, anxiety, lack of experience or fear of something like pregnancy are all common reasons for premature ejaculation. Traditionally men are lucky to last 3 minutes after penetration while women last about 12 minutes. In a lot of cases older men do have a little more control then younger guys and this would simply be credited to experience.

1. So now you would like to know how to control premature ejaculation. Your main sexual muscle is called the pc muscle. Exercising this muscle can definitely help. With regular exercise of the pc muscle you can maintain harder and larger erections as well as have more intense climaxes at ejaculation.

2. So now you are wondering exactly where this muscle is. Next time you’re urinating try stopping halfway through. The muscle is located between the scrotum and the anus. You will feel it contract when you try to stop the flow of urine.


3. Now you probably want to know the best way to excursive this muscle. You want to do three sets of ten second clenching and releasing the muscle. Take a short rest and then do this for five second intervals. Do it ten times this time. Lastly try clenching for 30 seconds and then relaxing for 30 seconds. Do this three times.

4. This exercise is no different than any other exercise. You have to commit to doing it regularly. The nice thing is that it can be done by you at any time and without the help of any equipment. It is rumored that famous porn stars use these exercises regularly.

Next time you and your partner are making love try and pause for a while once inside her. Don’t move for a few seconds. After that try the relaxing and clenching techniques. It’s very important to know how your partner likes to make love. Some like it hard and fast while others like slow and sensual. Knowing this will go great strides in helping to prevent premature ejaculation.

Dale Mazurek

Dale has been married for twenty years and considers himself some what of an expert in relationship topics such as this one. You can check out his very popular relationship blog at http://relationshiptidbits.blogspot.com/ two more of his up and coming blogs can be found at http://affiliatemarketingfornewbies.blogspot.com/ and http://fishingtutor.blogspot.com/