Probably one of the most difficult relationships in today’s society is the long distance relationship. First of all jealousy isn’t going to work in this sort of relationship. Expectations have to be established at the very beginning. This has to be done honestly and openly. It’s also very important that you live your own life when you’re apart.
When the two of you are apart its very important you don’t change your lifestyle. You have to continue going out with your friends. The biggest mistake you can make is sitting by the phone waiting for the call. Doing this will definitely drive you crazy.
Probably the biggest thing in failing a long distance relationship is jealousy. If you’re always worried about where your partner is and what they are doing then you’re setting yourself up for a very painful fall.
It’s important that we remember we are human beings and not robots. We crave passion and closeness with other human beings so is it really fair to ask either one of the partners to remain exclusive. You’re basically asking each other to be miserable while apart from one another.
To me a relationship is a relationship. I don’t care if your together every day or apart for months at a time. There should be no give when it comes to exclusivity. If you two care about each other enough you will make it work until you can be closer together for good. The key to any relationship is being open and honest. If you follow these two keys and you both care about one another then this kind of relationship really can work.
Dale Mazurek
Dale has been married for twenty years and considers himself an expert in topics of this sort. You can check out his ever growing blog at http://relationshiptidbits.blogspot.com/ two of his other popular blogs can be found at http://affiliatemarketingfornewbies.blogspot.com and http://fishingtutor.blogspot.com/
Showing posts with label partner. Show all posts
Showing posts with label partner. Show all posts
Sunday, July 29, 2007
Friday, July 20, 2007
How To Get Clues That Your Partner Is Cheating (Part 1)
Cheating can be one of the most devastating things that can happen to a man or woman in a committed relationship. In the next few articles I intend to bring you up to speed on some clues that you can watch for if you have any thoughts that your partner may be cheating.
Let’s go back to the beginning of a relationship. What really happens before two people decide to get married? They have been dating and checking each other out. We all know that women do the choosing. Men respond to women’s signals and a relationship moves forward at a pace governed by the women’s appetite. So how does a couple who is totally in love and committed to each other end up in the predicament dictated by cheating.
1. You and your spouse have had all the children you want. The both of you sit down and decide a vasectomy is the best way to go. You have the simple operation and everything is great. About a year later you are looking for something in her night table and you find birth control pills that are being used.
2. Your spouse and you have always got along with each other’s friends. One day you notice that these friends are now acting weird toward your spouse. To me this gives me the indication that they know something about your partner that he or she may be hiding from you.
3. Forever you and your spouse have always talked about things that have bothered them. There have never been secrets in your relationship. Next thing you notice is that your spouse isn’t talking to you and definitely isn’t confiding in you.
4. You’re going through your internet bill one day and you notice there is a new email account added to the bill. You had no clue there was a new email address. When you ask your partner about it they just tell you that it’s not important but they don’t offer to show you.
5. You give your spouse a kiss before he goes to work and you notice he has your favourite cologne on. You are very happy that he’s wearing it. When he gets home you give him a kiss and you notice that he smells like different cologne.
6. Your partner has never had any interest in going to the gym but all of a sudden he or she has a sudden interest in taking on many, many vigorous work outs at a gym across from town.
7. Your both sitting on the couch one evening watching a movie and all of the sudden you hear a phone ringing. She looks a bit confused when she reaches into her purse to shut the phone off. When you ask her why she didn’t tell you about the phone she claims that she just forgot about it.
This is part one of a short series on clues that your partner is cheating. By all means you can’t take these clues as gospel. Before doing anything rational I would suggest waiting for the rest of the articles to come out and even then I would be careful before accusing someone of something you don’t have proof of.
Dale Mazurek
http://dalesblogs.blogspot.com/
http://unityblog1.blogspot.com/
Let’s go back to the beginning of a relationship. What really happens before two people decide to get married? They have been dating and checking each other out. We all know that women do the choosing. Men respond to women’s signals and a relationship moves forward at a pace governed by the women’s appetite. So how does a couple who is totally in love and committed to each other end up in the predicament dictated by cheating.
1. You and your spouse have had all the children you want. The both of you sit down and decide a vasectomy is the best way to go. You have the simple operation and everything is great. About a year later you are looking for something in her night table and you find birth control pills that are being used.
2. Your spouse and you have always got along with each other’s friends. One day you notice that these friends are now acting weird toward your spouse. To me this gives me the indication that they know something about your partner that he or she may be hiding from you.
3. Forever you and your spouse have always talked about things that have bothered them. There have never been secrets in your relationship. Next thing you notice is that your spouse isn’t talking to you and definitely isn’t confiding in you.
4. You’re going through your internet bill one day and you notice there is a new email account added to the bill. You had no clue there was a new email address. When you ask your partner about it they just tell you that it’s not important but they don’t offer to show you.
5. You give your spouse a kiss before he goes to work and you notice he has your favourite cologne on. You are very happy that he’s wearing it. When he gets home you give him a kiss and you notice that he smells like different cologne.
6. Your partner has never had any interest in going to the gym but all of a sudden he or she has a sudden interest in taking on many, many vigorous work outs at a gym across from town.
7. Your both sitting on the couch one evening watching a movie and all of the sudden you hear a phone ringing. She looks a bit confused when she reaches into her purse to shut the phone off. When you ask her why she didn’t tell you about the phone she claims that she just forgot about it.
This is part one of a short series on clues that your partner is cheating. By all means you can’t take these clues as gospel. Before doing anything rational I would suggest waiting for the rest of the articles to come out and even then I would be careful before accusing someone of something you don’t have proof of.
Dale Mazurek
http://dalesblogs.blogspot.com/
http://unityblog1.blogspot.com/
Monday, July 9, 2007
How To Get Clues That Your Partner Is Cheating (Part 2)
Cheating can be one of the most devastating things that can happen to a man or woman in a committed relationship. In the next few articles I intend to bring you up to speed on some clues that you can watch for if you have any thoughts that your partner may be cheating. This will be the second article on this discussion.
Let’s go back to the beginning of a relationship. What really happens before two people decide to get married? They have been dating and checking each other out. We all know that women do the choosing. Men respond to women’s signals and a relationship moves forward at a pace governed by the women’s appetite. So how does a couple who is totally in love and committed to each other end up in the predicament dictated by cheating.
1. You take your spouse’s truck to the grocery store. On the way there you put the sun visor down to keep the sun out of your eyes and you notice some phone bills. When you have a look at them you notice that it is a personal cell phone bill that has his office for a billing address.
2. You’re doing your spouse’s laundry early one Saturday morning. You go to pick up his jeans and his wallet falls out spilling the contents all over the place. You notice condoms fall on the floor. You instantly wonder why he has condoms when you are already on the pill.
3. You’re snoopy and don’t really mean nothing by it but you pick up your spouse’s phone to play with it. While fooling around you notice that your spouse has deleted all of his or her incoming calls.
4. You notice that he quickly deletes all his emails and his inbox is usually empty when before the emails used to accumulate.
5. He starts asking you questions about what you have been doing. He accuses you of things that have no merit. This is usually done out of guilt
6. You notice a lot of weird hypothetical questions coming from him. Questions like “Do you think it’s possible to love more than one person?”
7. This may seem trivial but you notice some of his old underwear missing and then you start to notice new underwear in its place. This normally wouldn’t be a huge issue except for the fact that you have always bought his underwear.
This is part one of a short series on clues that your partner is cheating. By all means you can’t take these clues as gospel. Before doing anything rational I would suggest waiting for the rest of the articles to come out and even then I would be careful before accusing someone of something you don’t have proof of.
Dale Mazurek
Dale is working on making a career on line. Himself and his partner have teamed up to help build the largest, honest and most profitable organization on the internet. You can check out how he and his partner are doing at http://unityblog1.blogspot.com/ or check out many of his other blogs at http://dalesblogs.blogspot.com/
Let’s go back to the beginning of a relationship. What really happens before two people decide to get married? They have been dating and checking each other out. We all know that women do the choosing. Men respond to women’s signals and a relationship moves forward at a pace governed by the women’s appetite. So how does a couple who is totally in love and committed to each other end up in the predicament dictated by cheating.
1. You take your spouse’s truck to the grocery store. On the way there you put the sun visor down to keep the sun out of your eyes and you notice some phone bills. When you have a look at them you notice that it is a personal cell phone bill that has his office for a billing address.
2. You’re doing your spouse’s laundry early one Saturday morning. You go to pick up his jeans and his wallet falls out spilling the contents all over the place. You notice condoms fall on the floor. You instantly wonder why he has condoms when you are already on the pill.
3. You’re snoopy and don’t really mean nothing by it but you pick up your spouse’s phone to play with it. While fooling around you notice that your spouse has deleted all of his or her incoming calls.
4. You notice that he quickly deletes all his emails and his inbox is usually empty when before the emails used to accumulate.
5. He starts asking you questions about what you have been doing. He accuses you of things that have no merit. This is usually done out of guilt
6. You notice a lot of weird hypothetical questions coming from him. Questions like “Do you think it’s possible to love more than one person?”
7. This may seem trivial but you notice some of his old underwear missing and then you start to notice new underwear in its place. This normally wouldn’t be a huge issue except for the fact that you have always bought his underwear.
This is part one of a short series on clues that your partner is cheating. By all means you can’t take these clues as gospel. Before doing anything rational I would suggest waiting for the rest of the articles to come out and even then I would be careful before accusing someone of something you don’t have proof of.
Dale Mazurek
Dale is working on making a career on line. Himself and his partner have teamed up to help build the largest, honest and most profitable organization on the internet. You can check out how he and his partner are doing at http://unityblog1.blogspot.com/ or check out many of his other blogs at http://dalesblogs.blogspot.com/
Tuesday, June 19, 2007
Do I Have Issues In The Bedroom?
At the end of the day you will never know honestly if your actions in the bedroom have been satisfying for your partner. What you want to do is make sure you are doing your best and in this article I intend to help you a bit with these issues.
The problem comes in the question. If you are asking it then there probably is a problem. What we don’t know is if the problem is actually with your performance in the bedroom or if you just have low self confidence. It is however important for you to find out where the problem is. One thing is that it’s very important to learn whether or not you are satisfying your partner. The bad part is that it’s very tough to know when a woman is faking in the bedroom. Even men who have lots of experience in the bedroom sometimes have trouble determining what women are doing.
Now we have to think about the shouldn’t of happened issues. Or maybe the time you were too tired or stressed out. Maybe you had too much to drink and guess what happened. Unfortunately its times like this that beats up on a man’s self confidence. There are good and bad times and there isn’t a lot you can do about it except go with the flow. Don’t worry about your slip up. Just because of a little slip up you shouldn’t throw yourself confidence out the window.
Many things are out of your control when they go wrong. Even though modern technology has been supposed to make life easier it has only made things tougher with higher demands thus resulting in higher stress issues. Many men have to rely on stimulants but would probably not need them if they could just settle down.
Stress doesn’t only affect sexual performance. It has other side effects that can be just as bad. Some guys turn to drinking to bury their stress issues. It always starts out just as a couple of drinks with the guys and then it turns to entire nights out. Now with the significant amount of alcohol there is no way his performance could be anything except dreadful. It’s so important to recognize the signs of stress early so you can take steps to avoid it.
If you start questioning your performance than things could get bad. You could slide into a place that triggers self esteem. No matter what you have to stay on the positive side of things. There’s a good chance you are stressed or over worked. Maybe you have to change things up a bit in the bedroom. Remember every problem has an answer so just look around and I’m sure you will find it.
Dale Mazurek
Dale has been happily married for 19 years. Between that and his studies he has become quite an expert on relationship articles. You can check more of his articles at http://relationshiptidbits.blogspot.com/ or check out some of his great relationship products at http://track.lativio.com/hit.php?w=108403&p=2&s=5 and http://track.lativio.com/hit.php?w=108403&p=2&s=37
The problem comes in the question. If you are asking it then there probably is a problem. What we don’t know is if the problem is actually with your performance in the bedroom or if you just have low self confidence. It is however important for you to find out where the problem is. One thing is that it’s very important to learn whether or not you are satisfying your partner. The bad part is that it’s very tough to know when a woman is faking in the bedroom. Even men who have lots of experience in the bedroom sometimes have trouble determining what women are doing.
Now we have to think about the shouldn’t of happened issues. Or maybe the time you were too tired or stressed out. Maybe you had too much to drink and guess what happened. Unfortunately its times like this that beats up on a man’s self confidence. There are good and bad times and there isn’t a lot you can do about it except go with the flow. Don’t worry about your slip up. Just because of a little slip up you shouldn’t throw yourself confidence out the window.
Many things are out of your control when they go wrong. Even though modern technology has been supposed to make life easier it has only made things tougher with higher demands thus resulting in higher stress issues. Many men have to rely on stimulants but would probably not need them if they could just settle down.
Stress doesn’t only affect sexual performance. It has other side effects that can be just as bad. Some guys turn to drinking to bury their stress issues. It always starts out just as a couple of drinks with the guys and then it turns to entire nights out. Now with the significant amount of alcohol there is no way his performance could be anything except dreadful. It’s so important to recognize the signs of stress early so you can take steps to avoid it.
If you start questioning your performance than things could get bad. You could slide into a place that triggers self esteem. No matter what you have to stay on the positive side of things. There’s a good chance you are stressed or over worked. Maybe you have to change things up a bit in the bedroom. Remember every problem has an answer so just look around and I’m sure you will find it.
Dale Mazurek
Dale has been happily married for 19 years. Between that and his studies he has become quite an expert on relationship articles. You can check more of his articles at http://relationshiptidbits.blogspot.com/ or check out some of his great relationship products at http://track.lativio.com/hit.php?w=108403&p=2&s=5 and http://track.lativio.com/hit.php?w=108403&p=2&s=37
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