How To Get Clues That Your Partner Is Cheating (Part 1)

Cheating can be one of the most devastating things that can happen to a man or woman in a committed relationship. In the next few articles I intend to bring you up to speed on some clues that you can watch for if you have any thoughts that your partner may be cheating.

Let’s go back to the beginning of a relationship. What really happens before two people decide to get married? They have been dating and checking each other out. We all know that women do the choosing. Men respond to women’s signals and a relationship moves forward at a pace governed by the women’s appetite. So how does a couple who is totally in love and committed to each other end up in the predicament dictated by cheating.

1. You and your spouse have had all the children you want. The both of you sit down and decide a vasectomy is the best way to go. You have the simple operation and everything is great. About a year later you are looking for something in her night table and you find birth control pills that are being used.
2. Your spouse and you have always got along with each other’s friends. One day you notice that these friends are now acting weird toward your spouse. To me this gives me the indication that they know something about your partner that he or she may be hiding from you.
3. Forever you and your spouse have always talked about things that have bothered them. There have never been secrets in your relationship. Next thing you notice is that your spouse isn’t talking to you and definitely isn’t confiding in you.
4. You’re going through your internet bill one day and you notice there is a new email account added to the bill. You had no clue there was a new email address. When you ask your partner about it they just tell you that it’s not important but they don’t offer to show you.
5. You give your spouse a kiss before he goes to work and you notice he has your favourite cologne on. You are very happy that he’s wearing it. When he gets home you give him a kiss and you notice that he smells like different cologne.
6. Your partner has never had any interest in going to the gym but all of a sudden he or she has a sudden interest in taking on many, many vigorous work outs at a gym across from town.
7. Your both sitting on the couch one evening watching a movie and all of the sudden you hear a phone ringing. She looks a bit confused when she reaches into her purse to shut the phone off. When you ask her why she didn’t tell you about the phone she claims that she just forgot about it.
This is part one of a short series on clues that your partner is cheating. By all means you can’t take these clues as gospel. Before doing anything rational I would suggest waiting for the rest of the articles to come out and even then I would be careful before accusing someone of something you don’t have proof of.

Dale Mazurek

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Is There More Than One Type Of Kissing?

Kissing has to be one of the best ways in the world to show good emotions. At this very moment I can’t think about a negative impact of kissing. Oh sure we have heard about bad kissers but even bad kissers don’t hurt any one.

There are a number of different ways to kiss. There are passionate, friendly, playful and many different variations of kisses. They all depend on moods and relationship of people. A quick kiss in the morning to say bye to your wife is very different then the kiss that is associated with a long night of passion. Kissing is probably the most intimate act in today’s society.

1. French Kiss

Of course we have all heard of the French Kiss. It’s probably the most passionate and romantic kiss that can be exchanged by two lovers. Simply put a French Kiss is when two partners kiss with open mouths and their tongues touch. The partners use their tongues to explore each others mouths. They can play with each others tongues in many different kinds of ways.

2. Surprise Kiss

This kiss is another passionate one but it’s designed to surprise your partner and to convey intensity. The time this kiss is used is when your lover is busy doing something. They can be working, studying or just be absorbed by something else when you walk up to them with no words exchanged you just start kissing them. The kiss is always a nice reminder of your love for your partner. Through out the kiss you can decide whether this kiss should go further or if you should just end it and let your partner get back to what they were doing.

3. Lips Kiss

The lips kiss is another very romantic kiss but this one focuses on the lips instead of the inside of the mouth. This kiss can bring up huge passions in your partner. What is involved here is lightly biting and sucking on the lips. It could eventually lead to a French kiss if you want it to.

4. Fast Kiss

This kiss is just meant as a quick reminder to your partner that you care about them. This kiss is usually used when each partner is in a hurry or they are headed some where. Personally this kiss is very important to me because it reassures me through the day that my lover will be there at the end of the day.

There, of course are no hard fast rules in the art of kissing. You and your partner will have your own ways of expressing your love to one another. It is however the most common form of showing love in the world so you can never go wrong by kissing your partner.

Dale Mazurek

Dale has been married 20 years and considers himself somewhat of an expert on these topics. You can check out two of his very popular blogs at http://relationshiptidbits.blogspot.com/ or http://stcajo-readshortstories.blogspot.com/ or you can check out a great relationship product at http://track.lativio.com/hit.php?w=108403&p=2&s=37