Sunday, May 6, 2007
Women And Trust Issues
In any relationship trust is such a huge factor for all involved usually. In this article I will try and bring women’s trust issues to light a bit and see why they have so much trouble with trust.
Men and women look at trust in a different light. For the most part a man could not care about trust in the beginning. He doesn’t know where the relationship is going and let’s face it at first he is probably only after one thing. When it comes to most women trust is an issue from the very first date. I think this comes from being taught at a young age that strange men can be dangerous and they have to be careful.
The fact that women were taught about not trusting from a very young age carries on with them right through their life. Most women don’t even think their relationship will be short so they are looking for trust right from day one. There is an exception to every rule like women who engage in casual sex or there is the odd woman who just isn’t looking for a relationship but even those are still looking for some sort of trust.
Men have helped greatly to wreck trust issues for women. Let’s face it most men are pigs. They only want one thing and the woman knows that. Of course her guard is going to go up every time she gets involved with a new man. She has to be careful what she says so the man doesn’t take it the wrong way. She also has to listen very carefully to what the man says because she knows that a man will say anything to get what he wants.
There is a very touching issue that affects a woman to trust. It is a sad world that we live in that this should be an issue but it is so it should be mentioned. Very many women are abused at a young age by either a family member or a friend of the family. This alone can wreck a women’s trust for the rest of her life.
As a man if you’re only there for a short time then it’s really not worth it to try and figure her out. However if you think you can make a relationship with this girl then you should take things slow and take time to get to know her. Sex should be the last thing on your mind and getting to know her should be on top of the list. I strongly suggest you don’t push though because that will drive her away quickly. There is no doubt in my mind that once she starts to know and trust you better then she will open up more.
It’s such a fine line out there when it comes to trusting. I don’t blame women for being cautious and careful. However on the other hand a lot of would be relationships have been wrecked due to lack of trust. Women need to know that there are good men out there and they shouldn’t all be painted with the same brush. In that same breathe the men have to stop building a bad name for themselves.
Dale is an expert on articles of this sort because of his studies into these issues. You can check out his blogs at http://relationshiptidbits.blogspot.com/ or http://stcajo-readshortstories.blogspot.com/ and http://fishingtutor.blogspot.com/