Sunday, April 1, 2007

Is Your Girl Faking (Part 2)

The statistics that I read say that 70% of women fake orgasms. So I guess that means there is a good chance that your and my girl are faking as well. What are we doing wrong? Maybe she’s not comfortable with us or maybe were just not doing something right. Faking doesn’t mean she’s not enjoying it just means she’s not enjoying to her full potential. So how do you know if she’s faking? I am going to tell you. In this article I am going to tell you why she might be faking it.

So why is it that girl fake orgasm? I am going to try and enlighten you.

1. Probably the main reason girl’s fake orgasms are because they have never had one. That’s right many girls have never had an orgasm. I hate to tell you this men but it’s usually your fault that the women haven’t had an orgasm. You just want to be quick and get done instead of taking care of your lady.

2. Some women have different body types that don’t allow them to produce enough lube or they have very thin vaginal walls. Both of these will make a woman sore very fast. In turn there usually isn’t enough time to have an orgasm before getting too sore.

3. The last one that I think is terrible because it is usually the mans fault is that she thinks if she doesn’t have an orgasm every time then she is going to upset you. That’s not fair to the girl. It puts a lot of unnecessary pressure on the girl and a lot of strain on the relationship.

So now the important part is to get her to stop faking. In order to do this you are going to have to be open with her. The two of you have to carry on good conversation together. You as a guy have to learn to understand why she does it and what you can do to help her. Sometimes all it takes is to be a little more caring and gentle and then everything will fall into place.

Dale has been happily married for twenty years and considers himself an expert on the relationship topics. You can check out his newly formed relationship blog at or two more of his up and coming blogs are and

You hear lots of people laugh or shy away when you bring up the topic of faking orgasms but in a lot of cases this isn’t a laughing matter. It can ruin relationships or make couples very angry at one another. I have written a two part article with some of the basics on faking an orgasm

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