Sunday, August 5, 2007

Love And Its Sparks

So many people have so much in their lives but they are missing that one important part in their lives. In this article I will attempt to help you realise just how important love is in your life.
Your bank account is full of cash, you have job security, you have a great reputation, you own your own home, and your health is as great as it can be but still there is something missing in your life that’s keeping you from being happy. You haven’t found someone to love. You now realize that life without love is like your missing a part of your soul.
You have to realize that love is meant to be for life. Love isn’t days, weeks, months or even years but it should be forever. You have to learn how to keep the sparks going in a relationship in order to keep the relationship bright forever.
The short term relationships that we all encounter at one point or another are absolutely useless to our bodies and souls. You will never be happy with the short relationships. A long healthy relationship will keep your soul healthy, happy and joyful.
It is very easy to fall in love but very difficult to keep the sparks burning in that relationship. So before you commit to a long term relationship make sure your partner is as serious as you are. If your partner isn’t serious than the relationship can turn miserable in a hurry so you should get rid of that person and continue looking.
Too many people put their careers in front of their relationships and this is the worst thing you can do. You have to find a convenient balance between the two of them and then it will work. For your soul it’s absolutely important not to starve your soul from love just for your job.
All too often people split up after many successful years in a relationship. Everyone around you is genuinely surprised when they hear of the split up. In order to avoid this you have to make sure the communication inside the relationship always stays open. Talk to each other. A gentle kiss and a caressing touch will go a long way. If all else fails there is no shame in going to counselling to help make the relationship last.
Finding the right person to share the rest of your life with can be a great journey. It’s a ride that you want to take carefully. You need to find someone that shares your values, dreams, fantasies, joys and jokes. You also need someone who will stand by you during the hard times. This person has to be able to understand you and console you through every tough moment you may encounter in your life time.
Keeping those sparks going in your relationship at times can be very difficult but at the end of the day I will guarantee you that it will be worth it to be able to spend the rest of your life with someone you consider your best friend and soul mate.


Dale Mazurek
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