As promised here is my second article on cold feet. For the most part this syndrome really isn’t anything to worry about except in extreme cases. You just have to make sure you don’t let these silly fears make decisions for you. So quit thinking silly thoughts about whether you should get married or not and get on with your life
Okay the first thing I want you to do is write down all the things that are worrying you about getting married. I am willing to bet that most people can’t even get through an entire sentence. However for those of you who do get a sentence or several of them I want you to have a good look. Do any of them even have anything to do with your engagement or with you getting married? You might think they have to do with marriage but really wondering if you’re going to be a good father or something like that comes with time and you will find that out later. So for now I just want you to concentrate on getting married.
Now it is time to write a letter to the person you are going to marry. If you love this person you are going to come up with paragraphs and paragraphs of sweet, lusty things to say. This will only strengthen the fact that you love this person and that you want to carry on with the wedding. Now for the small minority of you who can’t write a nice thing about your partner then yes maybe you should be taking a good look at what you are about to do.
If wedding bells are in the future then by now there should be an array of pictures with you and your future spouse. So go ahead and look at them and see how they make you feel. For the most part I bet you are going to have a lot of good memories in those pictures. These memories are going to convince you that you want to be in more pictures and you want to make more memories. Now once again in the rare case that you can’t stand looking at the pictures then yes maybe you should do some serious thinking about what you are about to do.
In my two part miniseries I will try and show you how to avoid or work through cold feet. It is one thing to laugh at but I would suggest anyone suffering from cold feet have a look at this. It could help you work through it to carry on with a wonderful and prosperous relationship.
Dale Mazurek is an expert article writer. When it comes to relationships he has been married twenty years so he feels he has lots to offer in the relationship field. He is also in the process of getting his first novel published. You can check out both his blogs at http://relationshiptidbits.blogspot.com/